It's not always that easy to get over a breakup. There are those breakups that come as kind of a shock to you and if that is how things ended with your ex girlfriend, then it's only fitting that you would still feel the desire to get her back in some shape or form. The real problem that most guys have with this is, they do not know how to handle the emotions that they are feeling while at the same time doing things that work to win her back.

Here are 3 tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back that may change that for you:

1. To get your ex girlfriend back, you need to be able to move on from the breakup.

As weird as it might sound for you to get over the breakup if you still want her, it's something that you need to be able to do. The reason for this is, if you are still caught up in everything that happened that led to the breakup, it's only going to make it a lot harder for you to get your girlfriend back. Don't let the past come back to haunt you. Let it go and you will be a lot more likely to get her to come back to you.

2. You also need to be able to still go about your life without being hung up on her.

If you are so hung up on your ex girlfriend that you do not think of anyone else but her, then that is going to be a problem. It's healthy to be able to think of other things and other women. If you do not get to the point where you are thinking about other women and you are still hung up on her, then getting her back is going to be next to impossible.

3. You need to make sure that you are not pushing her away.

As good as your intentions might be, if you are doing the wrong things to try and convince your ex girlfriend to come back to you, it's not going to happen. You have to be aware of what it is that might end up pushing your ex girlfriend away from you and be sure that you are not doing any of those things. Otherwise, you could end up making things a lot worse for yourself, and you do not want to do this.