How To Get Your Girlfriend Back Even When She Is Dating Someone Else - 3 Tips To Pull Her Back
If you are a guy who is looking to get back your girlfriend, and you find out that she has started dating someone else, it can easily end up feeling like you have just been sucker punched right in the gut. Your mind starts to race and you begin to think about her being with him, maybe even them staying together and getting married. Of course that is going to end up hurting and making you feel like you've just been steamrolled.
What can you do?
The first thing that you need to consider is, you cannot end up getting jealous and talking bad about the new guy. The way that it works is that when you begin to talk bad about the new guy, your ex girlfriend starts to think badly of you. She will think that you are insecure, that you are just going to trash anyone that she meets and that you are just saying those things to try and convince her to dump him.
You do NOT want to have your ex girlfriend thinking that way of you, not if you still want to get her back.
Here are 3 tips that can help you to pull her back, even if your ex girlfriend is dating someone else:
1. You need to reconsider whether or not you really want to pursue your ex girlfriend.
Take a moment to step back and really re-think whether or not you want to go through and try to get her back. Realize that it can happen, but it might not be that easy on you. You are going to have to deal with the fact that right now, there is another guy in the picture. Some guys cannot handle that. Some guys end up saying things out of their insecurities that will end up making her hate them.
2. You need to date other women right now.
A lot of men make the assumption that if they date a new woman, that their ex girlfriend will end up hating them or thinking worse of them. Truthfully, it will probably put you in a better light. For one, it will end her thinking that you are just stuck on her, and also, it will kind of force her to confront whether or not she has feelings about you dating someone else. It's perfectly fine to go out and meet and date new women, even if your goal is to get back with her.
3. Focus on your strength, something the new guy does not have.
Okay, if you were with your ex girlfriend for any amount of time, then you probably know her a lot better than the new guy does. That can be a very good thing, if you let it. You know what kind of turns her on and makes her feel some attraction. You already did it before and you can do it again. You just have to focus on triggering her emotions in such a way that the new guy cannot even compete with.
What can you do?
The first thing that you need to consider is, you cannot end up getting jealous and talking bad about the new guy. The way that it works is that when you begin to talk bad about the new guy, your ex girlfriend starts to think badly of you. She will think that you are insecure, that you are just going to trash anyone that she meets and that you are just saying those things to try and convince her to dump him.
You do NOT want to have your ex girlfriend thinking that way of you, not if you still want to get her back.
Here are 3 tips that can help you to pull her back, even if your ex girlfriend is dating someone else:
1. You need to reconsider whether or not you really want to pursue your ex girlfriend.
Take a moment to step back and really re-think whether or not you want to go through and try to get her back. Realize that it can happen, but it might not be that easy on you. You are going to have to deal with the fact that right now, there is another guy in the picture. Some guys cannot handle that. Some guys end up saying things out of their insecurities that will end up making her hate them.
2. You need to date other women right now.
A lot of men make the assumption that if they date a new woman, that their ex girlfriend will end up hating them or thinking worse of them. Truthfully, it will probably put you in a better light. For one, it will end her thinking that you are just stuck on her, and also, it will kind of force her to confront whether or not she has feelings about you dating someone else. It's perfectly fine to go out and meet and date new women, even if your goal is to get back with her.
3. Focus on your strength, something the new guy does not have.
Okay, if you were with your ex girlfriend for any amount of time, then you probably know her a lot better than the new guy does. That can be a very good thing, if you let it. You know what kind of turns her on and makes her feel some attraction. You already did it before and you can do it again. You just have to focus on triggering her emotions in such a way that the new guy cannot even compete with.