There is more to marriage than just sex. Being a good companion to your partners will lead to a fruitful relationship. However there is also a theory that invigorating your sex life will also re-ignite the spark into your otherwise dormant marriage.
It is an old theory that having a great partner in bed will lead to a satisfactory marriage. One needs to note that having a robust sex life is no guarantee that you will be happy in your marriage. The partner's need to connect on several levels, sex being one of them, to lead a contented married life. Having a partner who is able to reciprocate on all such levels will make your relationship even stronger.
It is a given that no relationship can be perfect, but there are ways in which one can work in achieving a certain degree harmony. There will be occasions when both of you will argue over issues and both would consider their point of view being correct. However if both can sit down and tide over the differences it leads to lesser tiffs with your partner. If however, both of you are entering into arguments on more issues than one, it is time to seriously consider whether there is any gain in continuing the relationship any further.
Therefore prior to spicing up your sex life please consider the following points about your relationship.
1. Analyze how both of you felt about each other at the beginning of the relationship. What activities did both of you engage in besides passionate sex? What made you drop such acts of bonding? What were the shared hobbies both of you pursued which made your relationship all the more exciting? If you find answers to these questions you will find that you might have figured out how to strengthen your relationship once again.
2. It is always better to work on your relationship mutually without letting your friends or buddies interfere because they might provide biased opinions considering their proximity to you or your partner. The ideal people who can redeem the marriage are you yourselves. Instead of discussing the issues with your friends, try opening up to each other and discuss why the relationship is deteriorating.
Asking your partner to open up and share his or her feeling is a good beginning but one needs to provide the right kind of environment for this to happen. If you are not able to take criticism in the right spirit and get angry at each other you have already sent a signal that you'd rather not listen to negative comments. This is not a good sign, as suppressed emotional discontent will eventually lead to a breakdown in marriage.
Once you have heard the other side, you should also be provided with the opportunity to lay out your feelings. Try reasoning with each other and sort out the issues in a civilized manner.
Marriages, therefore, work on several layers. It might be enticing to think that sprucing up your sex life will automatically resolve all other issues you might have in a marriage but this is unfortunately not correct. The advice presented above should provide you a holistic view of sex and other facets to a marriage that can build a strong relationship.
It is an old theory that having a great partner in bed will lead to a satisfactory marriage. One needs to note that having a robust sex life is no guarantee that you will be happy in your marriage. The partner's need to connect on several levels, sex being one of them, to lead a contented married life. Having a partner who is able to reciprocate on all such levels will make your relationship even stronger.
It is a given that no relationship can be perfect, but there are ways in which one can work in achieving a certain degree harmony. There will be occasions when both of you will argue over issues and both would consider their point of view being correct. However if both can sit down and tide over the differences it leads to lesser tiffs with your partner. If however, both of you are entering into arguments on more issues than one, it is time to seriously consider whether there is any gain in continuing the relationship any further.
Therefore prior to spicing up your sex life please consider the following points about your relationship.
1. Analyze how both of you felt about each other at the beginning of the relationship. What activities did both of you engage in besides passionate sex? What made you drop such acts of bonding? What were the shared hobbies both of you pursued which made your relationship all the more exciting? If you find answers to these questions you will find that you might have figured out how to strengthen your relationship once again.
2. It is always better to work on your relationship mutually without letting your friends or buddies interfere because they might provide biased opinions considering their proximity to you or your partner. The ideal people who can redeem the marriage are you yourselves. Instead of discussing the issues with your friends, try opening up to each other and discuss why the relationship is deteriorating.
Asking your partner to open up and share his or her feeling is a good beginning but one needs to provide the right kind of environment for this to happen. If you are not able to take criticism in the right spirit and get angry at each other you have already sent a signal that you'd rather not listen to negative comments. This is not a good sign, as suppressed emotional discontent will eventually lead to a breakdown in marriage.
Once you have heard the other side, you should also be provided with the opportunity to lay out your feelings. Try reasoning with each other and sort out the issues in a civilized manner.
Marriages, therefore, work on several layers. It might be enticing to think that sprucing up your sex life will automatically resolve all other issues you might have in a marriage but this is unfortunately not correct. The advice presented above should provide you a holistic view of sex and other facets to a marriage that can build a strong relationship.