A relationship is hard to handle. You have to overcome all problems, keep your partner happy and be happy as well. Now, if you are not finding inner true happiness how will you keep your partner happy? Are things confusing for you? Do you think you should end up the union?

Well, let's find this out. If you feel that the relationship is lacking something or there is something wrong somewhere, you should make this clear with your partner. I can understand that this reaction of yours can tension but the truth is the truth. You need to know the truth to be able to take further steps.

Don't try to hide your feelings and how you see the relationship with your partner in fear of hurting them or whatever. It is a very important step.

Next you have to think and decide what you want in the relationship, what not, where you want to take it to and so on. For example you can say you want more attention from your partner or you want to stop cheating or be cheated on. Also you can say that you want the relationship to develop and grow. Another important factor for the wellness of a relationship is excitement and romance and maybe from time to time some serious talking.

You can feel that your couple life lacks events, get-togethers both indoors and outdoors. Everyone needs some intellectual, spiritual or mental support from his or her better half. So, draw your list of wishes.

Now that you know what you expect, you have to explain yourself to your partner. Will he or she in return at least try to give you what you want? This will prove weather your partner wants to or not to contribute for the success of the relationship. Their behavior will determine if they are willing to mend the union or not.