Web Dating: Possessive And Jealous Men
But just what is the big deal with these possessive and jealous men? Their intentions when they joined web dating is that they are looking for a serious relationship with a woman, but due to their own insecurities, they cling possessively once they find them. They really do not believe that they can keep you because of their own lack of self-confidence and self-esteem. They don't really believe that they deserve this lady (you), so they try to bend them to their whims and make her dependent on him alone. Actually, this is really sad, once you think about it deeper.
As women, we need to get a handle on their psychology before we can know what to do. This possessive and jealous guy actually doesn't love himself, so he would go on asking why such a great woman such as yourself would love him back. This man cannot love himself so he can't imagine someone else loving him too. But he needs to feel she does, so he needs to have expressions as to how far she will go for him. He will promote the positive attitude of staying online together at specific times just so spend more time together. He will try to make you more dependent on him and him alone so you won't leave him for anyone else.
How does he do that? He will find imagined scenarios where he would ask for your help, which will force you to stay online with him. This point, you would only think that he's just being romantic and just wants to spend more time with you. Which is a perfectly natural reaction. But little by little, this possessive and jealous man will eat away your social time with other people and activities. Doing this, he will slowly separate you from others and fulfill his own needs.
The next thing that he will try to do is to make you feel bad about yourself to ensure that you will have such a low self-esteem that you will cling to him. He will tell you how lucky you are to have a catch like him.
By now, he has you where he wants you. A dependent and isolated woman. But this won't mean that he will trust you. He will always believe that you will leave him at some point, so he will continuously find ways to make you more dependent on him.