Think It"s Impossible to Get Him to Pursue You? Think Again
Go out to any nightclub and you'll see that many women resort to putting their sexual attributes on display in a big way.
Don't be intimidated by this and, more importantly, don't imitate them.
Sure, you'll probably notice that a lot (if not all) of the men are looking at them.
But keep this in mind; the men who will pursue these women are only looking for good time.
Men who are seeking a relationship may glance at these women, but what they're really looking for is a good woman who has more to offer.
And that's where you step in.
Always look your best when you go out, but you can look great and still show a some class.
Highlight your best features, but do it in a tasteful way.
Another thing to keep in mind is the aura you give off.
Are you uptight and cold? Men may fear approaching you.
Or are you a goofball and you can't stop making a spectacle of yourself? Some men may be a little reluctant to speak to you.
Find a more neutral ground to step out on, one that will not scare men off.
Laugh and have fun and show the world around you that you're fun and easy to be with.
When a man approaches you, don't categorically shoot him down, but don't automatically go running to him either.
Keep a fun balance of showing him you just might be a little interested in him, but hold back and show him you might not.
This way you're sure to avoid giving the impression you might be desperate.
He'll see the fun, yet independent woman you are and will be all the more intrigued by you.
It's not as impossible as you might think to get a guy to pursue you, but you do have to remember to be a little elusive.
Give him a challenge and let him know you're not going to be too easy to win over.
Amidst this, give him a little bit of encouragement by actually showing your increased interest in him.