Have you ever felt sure somewhere deep inside you that you could have better sex with him? Your sex life is fine.
Maybe it's quite good even.
But maybe you also sense that there must be something more? That you're missing out on something? And you don't know what it is or what to do? Sex is a very special, intimate, and precious gift when engaged in with someone you love.
It's an expression, a declaration, a sharing, a beautiful flow between two people.
It's a discovery of self in the moment through two hearts beating as one, two bodies melting one into the other.
I have always known this as truth, and though there was nothing wrong with my sex life, it was lovely, awesome at times, I just knew my body was capable of more.
I wasn't feeling things as deeply as I was sure I could.
Most everything felt good, but still I found myself asking, "Is this it? Is there something I can do to feel even more? Something that could make making love more profound?" I was sure that making love has seemingly limitless potential for exploration of bodily sensations, inside and out, body, mind, heart, and soul.
And I wanted to find a way to tap into this well of possibilities.
I discovered many things that have opened up my lovemaking and brought it to new depths and heights, to have sex be even better with him, and I will share a really lovely one with you here.
Try this.
1.
Right from the first caress, tune into yourself; notice what's going on inside of you, the sensations welling in your body no matter how tiny or huge.
2.
Now become very aware of your man's touch wherever it might be, on your face, on your body, his lips against yours, his hands caressing your hair, your breasts, your waist, your back, your hips, your thighs.
Is every inch of you feeling electrified? Some places may be more than others, but all of it feels delicious, doesn't it? 3.
Notice if your heart opens and swells.
How about your female parts.
You may become highly aroused quickly, or it may be a quieter rise.
You may just feel peaceful.
I call this feeling the first act of love making.
* Now open your eyes.
Take him in.
Include him in your experience.
* See his sparkling eyes.
Notice his sensuous smile.
* Can you feel his lust? His desire? His love? His energy butting up against yours? Imagine it if you can't feel it right away.
* Now allow him to see YOU, all of YOU.
Your feminine figure.
Your arousal.
Your excited anticipation.
Your joy.
Your heart as much as it will reveal itself in this moment.
I call this feeling the second act of love making.
~ Now close your eyes again.
~ Try expanding your senses beyond the two of you.
Feel textures.
The sheets brushing against your forms.
The pillows cradling your heads and limbs.
The air surrounding you, enveloping you, breathing life into you.
Feel the flickering candlelight warming you, making silky, shadowy shapes against your hearts.
~ Expand your senses further still to the world outside, to all that Mother Nature has to offer.
Can you feel gentle breezes? Soft aromas? Anything else? Can you feel the pulse of the universe? ~ Keep in connection with your body while imagining this; keep feeling all that you can feel, every trembling, every pulse, everything you feel.
~ Continue to stay very much in connection with him too, feeling all that he feels, feeling all that he emits and gives you through his skin, his member, his spirit, his heart.
Again if you can't really feel it, imagine it.
~ As much as you are able, allow ALL that is to enter you, fill you up, add to your sensations, as you surrender to yourself, to your man, to life, to love, moving in a sweet, symbiotic dance.
I call this feeling the third act of love making.
This is a beautiful way to facilitate more intimate and deeper love making with your man, a lovely way to have better sex with him.
Maybe it's quite good even.
But maybe you also sense that there must be something more? That you're missing out on something? And you don't know what it is or what to do? Sex is a very special, intimate, and precious gift when engaged in with someone you love.
It's an expression, a declaration, a sharing, a beautiful flow between two people.
It's a discovery of self in the moment through two hearts beating as one, two bodies melting one into the other.
I have always known this as truth, and though there was nothing wrong with my sex life, it was lovely, awesome at times, I just knew my body was capable of more.
I wasn't feeling things as deeply as I was sure I could.
Most everything felt good, but still I found myself asking, "Is this it? Is there something I can do to feel even more? Something that could make making love more profound?" I was sure that making love has seemingly limitless potential for exploration of bodily sensations, inside and out, body, mind, heart, and soul.
And I wanted to find a way to tap into this well of possibilities.
I discovered many things that have opened up my lovemaking and brought it to new depths and heights, to have sex be even better with him, and I will share a really lovely one with you here.
Try this.
1.
Right from the first caress, tune into yourself; notice what's going on inside of you, the sensations welling in your body no matter how tiny or huge.
2.
Now become very aware of your man's touch wherever it might be, on your face, on your body, his lips against yours, his hands caressing your hair, your breasts, your waist, your back, your hips, your thighs.
Is every inch of you feeling electrified? Some places may be more than others, but all of it feels delicious, doesn't it? 3.
Notice if your heart opens and swells.
How about your female parts.
You may become highly aroused quickly, or it may be a quieter rise.
You may just feel peaceful.
I call this feeling the first act of love making.
* Now open your eyes.
Take him in.
Include him in your experience.
* See his sparkling eyes.
Notice his sensuous smile.
* Can you feel his lust? His desire? His love? His energy butting up against yours? Imagine it if you can't feel it right away.
* Now allow him to see YOU, all of YOU.
Your feminine figure.
Your arousal.
Your excited anticipation.
Your joy.
Your heart as much as it will reveal itself in this moment.
I call this feeling the second act of love making.
~ Now close your eyes again.
~ Try expanding your senses beyond the two of you.
Feel textures.
The sheets brushing against your forms.
The pillows cradling your heads and limbs.
The air surrounding you, enveloping you, breathing life into you.
Feel the flickering candlelight warming you, making silky, shadowy shapes against your hearts.
~ Expand your senses further still to the world outside, to all that Mother Nature has to offer.
Can you feel gentle breezes? Soft aromas? Anything else? Can you feel the pulse of the universe? ~ Keep in connection with your body while imagining this; keep feeling all that you can feel, every trembling, every pulse, everything you feel.
~ Continue to stay very much in connection with him too, feeling all that he feels, feeling all that he emits and gives you through his skin, his member, his spirit, his heart.
Again if you can't really feel it, imagine it.
~ As much as you are able, allow ALL that is to enter you, fill you up, add to your sensations, as you surrender to yourself, to your man, to life, to love, moving in a sweet, symbiotic dance.
I call this feeling the third act of love making.
This is a beautiful way to facilitate more intimate and deeper love making with your man, a lovely way to have better sex with him.