One writer once said "don't walk in front of me I may not follow, don't walk behind me I may not lead, walk beside me and be my friend", but the question do people really want true pure friendship or all the relationships are for the personal benefit?
People thought about this idea for decades from Freud that said that the source of all the human being actions are selfishness , to the modern psychology that say that people are a pile of selfishness and personal benefits.
For the beginning strong people always like to surround themselves with pathetic people to shine more. Since a white spot shines more on the black background. Here we see this group of trendy and popular always have a leader that manipulates them, in their actions and behaviors. Since it is easier to lead weak people than to be a star among the powerful and strong. On the other hand the people that are manipulated they are weak and want to hide this weakness by being with beautiful, successful and clever. Here the personal benefits are obvious, but it is not for the people that are involved, it is a sociological behavior.
On the other hand, people become friends for trade in the experience or knowledge this most happens in schools and universities. That is because one of them wants extra information while the other wants to make sure that he is the best and that he has a great amount of knowledge.
Moreover, people like to be heard, people like to dramatize their life, and think that their problems are greatest. So when they find a person that is willing to listen and share their troubles they stuck to that as hard as they can, not for the person himself but for the emotional peace and satisfaction he is having.
Funny thing to say , we want to discover the space and see if there is life on marc , why on earth we want to discover new life if we cannot communicate with each other here.
Eventually, at a certain point in our life we need someone just to be with us, to be thrilled for our fortunes and sad for the misfortunes, and be with us on the journey of life. So we have to be happy and satisfied if we can find one person from the whole universe that can be a pure, true friend.
People thought about this idea for decades from Freud that said that the source of all the human being actions are selfishness , to the modern psychology that say that people are a pile of selfishness and personal benefits.
For the beginning strong people always like to surround themselves with pathetic people to shine more. Since a white spot shines more on the black background. Here we see this group of trendy and popular always have a leader that manipulates them, in their actions and behaviors. Since it is easier to lead weak people than to be a star among the powerful and strong. On the other hand the people that are manipulated they are weak and want to hide this weakness by being with beautiful, successful and clever. Here the personal benefits are obvious, but it is not for the people that are involved, it is a sociological behavior.
On the other hand, people become friends for trade in the experience or knowledge this most happens in schools and universities. That is because one of them wants extra information while the other wants to make sure that he is the best and that he has a great amount of knowledge.
Moreover, people like to be heard, people like to dramatize their life, and think that their problems are greatest. So when they find a person that is willing to listen and share their troubles they stuck to that as hard as they can, not for the person himself but for the emotional peace and satisfaction he is having.
Funny thing to say , we want to discover the space and see if there is life on marc , why on earth we want to discover new life if we cannot communicate with each other here.
Eventually, at a certain point in our life we need someone just to be with us, to be thrilled for our fortunes and sad for the misfortunes, and be with us on the journey of life. So we have to be happy and satisfied if we can find one person from the whole universe that can be a pure, true friend.