- 1). Set clear limits with your rebellious child. If you set limits, your teen will have a benchmark for his rebellion. If there are no boundaries to push, your child will be tempted to push as hard as he can.
- 2). Be consistent with your boundaries. If your child makes you surrender, she will be tempted to rebel more. If you let her get away with a lot and then get mad at her, you will just alienate her.
- 3). Explain the consequences of different choices to a rebellious child. Avoid lecturing and phrase things in such a way that he can understand, which helps him understand the tangible effects of his actions.
- 4). Negotiate if you need to. While consistency is key, you don't need to be rigid. Follow the spirit of your rules without following them to the letter. For example, if your child is only a half hour past curfew and doesn't look like she's been getting into trouble, let it slide. This shows that your rules reflect your values but that you are also prepared to make changes when the situation calls for it.
- 5). Listen to your child when he talks to you. By being a good listener, you can better understand your child's situation and create a better connection with him.
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