Understand the following two concepts and become irresistible to the women you desire:
The first thing you have to understand is that Attraction is not a choice. This concept is hard to understand especially if you are the l logical kind of guy. You just can't convince a woman to fall in love with you no matter how hard you try.
The second thing is that women are far more attracted to things like attitude, confidence, body language, humor, ambition etc. than looks or money. (Money and looks are good attention getters at first, but if that's all the guy has most women will run away).
So what to do:
You can start by stopping to take yourself so seriously all the time. For example what do you say when a woman asks you about what you do for living: most men start talking about their job (how boring). Why not talk about your hobbies, your passions and if you don't have any then that would be your start; find some.
What is really important to you in your life right now? What are your dreams? What are your passions? What makes you happy?
The second thing you can do immediately is to change your attitude, confidence and body language. Before you do that you must learn to observe yourself
(see article about self awareness), so you know what you are doing wrong. Once you start observing yourself consciously you would start noticing how you carry yourself around women: (don't worry you will find things that really embarrass you for sure) most likely you would notice that you hunch over, you supplicate, and you laugh too much, you're too clingy. Once you notice what you are doing wrong stop it.
Attraction is not a choice, it is chemistry. Stop trying to convince the women around you to love you and start acting in an attractive manner and watch them flock to you. Be passionate, be confident and talk about what makes you happy.
Read the more and share your thoughts at my blog:
http://www.incontrolcoaching.com/how-to-get-your-sole-mate-for-guys
The first thing you have to understand is that Attraction is not a choice. This concept is hard to understand especially if you are the l logical kind of guy. You just can't convince a woman to fall in love with you no matter how hard you try.
The second thing is that women are far more attracted to things like attitude, confidence, body language, humor, ambition etc. than looks or money. (Money and looks are good attention getters at first, but if that's all the guy has most women will run away).
So what to do:
You can start by stopping to take yourself so seriously all the time. For example what do you say when a woman asks you about what you do for living: most men start talking about their job (how boring). Why not talk about your hobbies, your passions and if you don't have any then that would be your start; find some.
What is really important to you in your life right now? What are your dreams? What are your passions? What makes you happy?
The second thing you can do immediately is to change your attitude, confidence and body language. Before you do that you must learn to observe yourself
(see article about self awareness), so you know what you are doing wrong. Once you start observing yourself consciously you would start noticing how you carry yourself around women: (don't worry you will find things that really embarrass you for sure) most likely you would notice that you hunch over, you supplicate, and you laugh too much, you're too clingy. Once you notice what you are doing wrong stop it.
Attraction is not a choice, it is chemistry. Stop trying to convince the women around you to love you and start acting in an attractive manner and watch them flock to you. Be passionate, be confident and talk about what makes you happy.
Read the more and share your thoughts at my blog:
http://www.incontrolcoaching.com/how-to-get-your-sole-mate-for-guys