So you want to know how to be single and happy? I understand how you feel.
In fact, I was married all my adult life until just 7 years ago, so I really understand what you are going through.
But I have a secret for you...
and here it is: I am single and happy and you can be too.
I am the only person who can make me happy.
It was not my spouse's job to make me happy nor was it my job to make him happy.
Nobody out there, male or female, can bring happiness to me.
Only I can do that.
And nobody else can raise my self esteem or make me feel worthy of love and attention.
It is an inside job for me to do for me.
Period.
So this is good news for you and me especially since we want to know how to be single and happy.
We can turn this fact to our advantage.
Typically we look to the other person to tell us how wonderful we are, how good we look.
We wait for them to say, "I love you," to believe we are lovable.
So instead, let's get this powerful be single and happy secret.
What is the secret? Personal Happiness Quotient - PHQ.
PHQ is the way you feel about yourself in each area of your life.
When you raise your PHQ to 100 in all areas then nothing, absolutely nothing, can block your happiness.
How do you raise your PHQ? You can do that in multiple ways.
1.
Your world reflects your thoughts and feelings.
Change your thoughts to make your outer world match your inner world of being a happy single.
2.
Change your self image to eliminate your limiting beliefs.
Accurately using affirmations will accomplish that end.
(Most people teach them wrong.
) 3.
Love yourself exactly as you are - even while making the necessary changes in your thinking and actions.
Warning: Do not neglect the above! Be sure to take this advice seriously if you want to live single and happy.