Why Men Withdraw From a Relationship - How You Can Easily Get Him Back
It's not uncommon for a woman to find herself feeling as though her boyfriend is pulling away from her, and as he seems to withdraw from the relationship, it can cause you to wonder and worry about your future with him. As you and I both know, men and women can be vastly different in how they act in a relationship, and sometimes when it seems like a guy is pulling away, it's really not as bad as it might seem to you.
Men will withdraw when they don't know any other way to deal with their emotions, and they feel like they need a "safe" place to deal with things. Guys usually like to handle this all on their own, and it can be a good thing for you to just let him get on without trying too hard to pull him back to you.
Here's how you can pull him back to you:
1. Let him know that you are there for him, but don't make it feel like you are trying to smother him.
Like I said, a guy sometimes needs that space, and it does not always mean that the relationship is on the brink of disaster. As long as he knows that you are there and supportive of him, then let him have that time alone to drift for a bit and figure things out. You might be surprised at how quickly he seems to make a comeback if you allow him his space.
2. Focus on your life and don't let him think that you are just going to wait for him forever.
While it is a good thing to let him sort things out on his own without too much pressure, you need to be able to let him know that you are not going to wait around forever. This will let him realize that he needs to really figure things out, and it will prevent him from thinking that he can just take you for granted.
3. Men withdraw sometimes because they are ready to move on. Let him.
This might take you by surprise, but you should let him move on if that is what he chooses. Sometimes, a guy just is not ready to have a fulfilling and lasting relationship, and there is nothing that you can do to make him feel that way. You need to let him and be able to move on with your life. Although it might not seem like it, there are plenty of other men out there for you.
Men will withdraw when they don't know any other way to deal with their emotions, and they feel like they need a "safe" place to deal with things. Guys usually like to handle this all on their own, and it can be a good thing for you to just let him get on without trying too hard to pull him back to you.
Here's how you can pull him back to you:
1. Let him know that you are there for him, but don't make it feel like you are trying to smother him.
Like I said, a guy sometimes needs that space, and it does not always mean that the relationship is on the brink of disaster. As long as he knows that you are there and supportive of him, then let him have that time alone to drift for a bit and figure things out. You might be surprised at how quickly he seems to make a comeback if you allow him his space.
2. Focus on your life and don't let him think that you are just going to wait for him forever.
While it is a good thing to let him sort things out on his own without too much pressure, you need to be able to let him know that you are not going to wait around forever. This will let him realize that he needs to really figure things out, and it will prevent him from thinking that he can just take you for granted.
3. Men withdraw sometimes because they are ready to move on. Let him.
This might take you by surprise, but you should let him move on if that is what he chooses. Sometimes, a guy just is not ready to have a fulfilling and lasting relationship, and there is nothing that you can do to make him feel that way. You need to let him and be able to move on with your life. Although it might not seem like it, there are plenty of other men out there for you.