Have you ever thought of talking your spouse into the swinging lifestyle? And you do not even know how to start the conversation because you are scared that she may think that you are a pervert? As a couple, it is best that both of you can share the same desires over the sexual issue and to experience great sexual and erotic encounters.
However, you will not know how your spouse will feel about the swinging lifestyle, unless you make the approach to talk to her.
What you can do now is to bring up this subject casually in a normal conversation.
If you get a negative response, stay away from the topic, for the time being, and look for other opportunities to bring up the subject again.
If you get a positive response, then you may elaborate on how you feel about the swinging lifestyle and how this lifestyle can bring enjoyment for both of you.
You may even like to discuss the pros and cons with your partner about getting involved in swinging.
Be open to sharing and talking about your own views and opinions.
One important factor you need to take note.
Never put it in a way that it is your desires and wants to involve in swinging, you should emphasize to her that it is a new experience that both of you can engage in order to bring fun and excitement to your relationship.
If possible, you may also show her some success swinging stories in some swinging sites to further create her interests.