You are reading this because you have recently split from your partner and you obviously want them back.
Virtually all adults will have experienced a relationship break down at some point in their lives, it is how we respond individually to this emotional crisis that sets us apart from each other.
The simple fact that the majority of the time there is no good reason why most people cannot get their ex back.
What sets the successful ones apart from the unsuccessful is having a proven plan of action to follow.
Those without a plan will just throw themselves back at their ex, making endless phone calls sending text messages, and an awful amount of emails all begging and pleading their lover to return, well I can assure you that they are almost guaranteed to fail.
First leave your partner alone for about a month and do some thinking, establish in your own mind exactly what went wrong in the relationship, what were the points of friction, and assess how well you dealt with them.
Also reassess how much effort you put in to making it work.
Consider how many times a week did you think about your other half, what did they expect from you, did you provide the fun, excitement and commitment that you should have done.
How often did you think about things from their point of view? You can get your love to return if you know how, but if you do and you want it to last for the rest of your life you need to recognise why it failed in the first place so that you can insure that it does not fail in the same way again.
Once you have spent some time reflecting over the past months and are pretty sure that you have reconciled yourself to all that happened between you, you will be ready to make contact with your ex again.
Just how you go about this tricky meeting is something that should be planned well in advance and not left to chance.
I have laid out here just the first few tentative steps to get your Ex back.
These are the opening steps that will form the basis of a coherent strategy and proven plan to get your ex back.
Virtually all adults will have experienced a relationship break down at some point in their lives, it is how we respond individually to this emotional crisis that sets us apart from each other.
The simple fact that the majority of the time there is no good reason why most people cannot get their ex back.
What sets the successful ones apart from the unsuccessful is having a proven plan of action to follow.
Those without a plan will just throw themselves back at their ex, making endless phone calls sending text messages, and an awful amount of emails all begging and pleading their lover to return, well I can assure you that they are almost guaranteed to fail.
First leave your partner alone for about a month and do some thinking, establish in your own mind exactly what went wrong in the relationship, what were the points of friction, and assess how well you dealt with them.
Also reassess how much effort you put in to making it work.
Consider how many times a week did you think about your other half, what did they expect from you, did you provide the fun, excitement and commitment that you should have done.
How often did you think about things from their point of view? You can get your love to return if you know how, but if you do and you want it to last for the rest of your life you need to recognise why it failed in the first place so that you can insure that it does not fail in the same way again.
Once you have spent some time reflecting over the past months and are pretty sure that you have reconciled yourself to all that happened between you, you will be ready to make contact with your ex again.
Just how you go about this tricky meeting is something that should be planned well in advance and not left to chance.
I have laid out here just the first few tentative steps to get your Ex back.
These are the opening steps that will form the basis of a coherent strategy and proven plan to get your ex back.