Ever wondered how to transform a failing relationship? Why is it that some relationships fail, yet others continue to go from strength to strength? It's time to turn around your failing relationship and take the award for "best relationship of the year!" You're in love, and the one thing in life that causes you great distress is the mere thought that your partner wants out, that they will no longer be a part of your life.
Obviously you're reading this because you've found out, or have a sneaky suspicion your partner is contemplating a breakup.
Before the inevitable happens, you need to take swift action by avoiding a handful of dangerous behaviors that are guaranteed to make them leave.
Pay attention.
FIRST OF ALL, DON'T ARGUE WITH YOUR PARTNER It's fine to disagree with them, but do so without going red in the face and jumping around like a raving lunatic.
Don't flip your nana in an effort to prove they're wrong and you're right.
This will only push both of you further apart.
Listen to the famous words of Benjamin Franklin:
So whatever you do, don't resort to arguing.
Take a neutral stance and really listen to what they have to say without blowing your cool.
Ranting and raving trying to get your point home will do nothing.
If you think an argument will occur, then escape for a few hours.
Go take a walk, or better still, a cold shower and cool off! There's nothing - absolutely nothing that's going to impress your partner when you blow up in their face, pointing blame and preaching as if you're the word of the God.
Don't do it.
Be the better person and show strength.
DON'T PLAN FOR THE WORST This will make you either look like you're also happy to bail, or else make you look like you have accepted defeat without trying even harder to keep your loved one.
The number of loops you jump through and efforts you go through to keep your relationship in tact and rosy will truly show your partner how much you love them.
DON'T BLAME THEM If your partner wants to break up, blaming THEM is just going to make things worse.
Why? Because they've already found enough fault with you, that they want to leave.
It's like you're confirming their decision when you start blaming them.
After all, if you're doing wrong and they're doing wrong, then it's only logical to break up, right? So stop doing wrong, and stop blaming them.
The natural laws of the universe state that you attract exactly what you think and do.
If you want your partner to do good, then first do good yourself.
Simply adopt a mutual position and focus on working through your problems without laying blame.
This helps your mate see you in a positive light and associate you with pleasant feelings, as they will continually have more good memories of you than bad.
If your partner wants to talk about your relationship, do so.
Just make sure you keep your cool, and instead of concentrating on whose to blame, concentrate on how to resurrect your relationship.
BURST AT THE RIMS WITH CONFIDENCE It's not just about keeping your cool - it's also about keeping your confidence.
Even if you're not feeling 100% confident, you can't let this come through in your actions.
Nobody wants an unstable partner lacking confidence.
Your confidence levels will affect the way your partner sees you.
Confidence is attractive, right? Right.
And there's nothing like seeming sure about yourself, to make another person pick up on your worth.
Confidence is contagious.
It will attract people from far and wide.
It will bring out your charm to your partner.
The thing is, you've got to go about it like it's your first romance.
Think back to the days when your relationship was the envy of others.
Rewind the clock and try to re-create these feelings.
GET A GAME PLAN! Everything that's been stated here so far will help you lay the foundation for your newly rebuilt relationship.
A simple foundation does not make a long-standing house - you need a maintenance plan as well! Nurturing your relationship is an ongoing process.
Building your relationship starts from today.
Don't wait another moment! It's important to take these steps now before your relationship further sours.
The ball is now in your court.
Go and do something about it before you lose your loved one forever.
Your next step? To take what you've just learned and put this to work right away.
Obviously you're reading this because you've found out, or have a sneaky suspicion your partner is contemplating a breakup.
Before the inevitable happens, you need to take swift action by avoiding a handful of dangerous behaviors that are guaranteed to make them leave.
Pay attention.
FIRST OF ALL, DON'T ARGUE WITH YOUR PARTNER It's fine to disagree with them, but do so without going red in the face and jumping around like a raving lunatic.
Don't flip your nana in an effort to prove they're wrong and you're right.
This will only push both of you further apart.
Listen to the famous words of Benjamin Franklin:
If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a temporary victory - sometimes; but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent's good will"What is your intention here? To stay with your partner, or have them leave you? It's always easier to resolve things now before situations get worse and you breakup.
So whatever you do, don't resort to arguing.
Take a neutral stance and really listen to what they have to say without blowing your cool.
Ranting and raving trying to get your point home will do nothing.
If you think an argument will occur, then escape for a few hours.
Go take a walk, or better still, a cold shower and cool off! There's nothing - absolutely nothing that's going to impress your partner when you blow up in their face, pointing blame and preaching as if you're the word of the God.
Don't do it.
Be the better person and show strength.
DON'T PLAN FOR THE WORST This will make you either look like you're also happy to bail, or else make you look like you have accepted defeat without trying even harder to keep your loved one.
The number of loops you jump through and efforts you go through to keep your relationship in tact and rosy will truly show your partner how much you love them.
DON'T BLAME THEM If your partner wants to break up, blaming THEM is just going to make things worse.
Why? Because they've already found enough fault with you, that they want to leave.
It's like you're confirming their decision when you start blaming them.
After all, if you're doing wrong and they're doing wrong, then it's only logical to break up, right? So stop doing wrong, and stop blaming them.
The natural laws of the universe state that you attract exactly what you think and do.
If you want your partner to do good, then first do good yourself.
- Don't irritate your partner, and soon they'll stop irritating you.
- Don't blame your partner, and soon they'll stop blaming you.
- ...
and so on.
Simply adopt a mutual position and focus on working through your problems without laying blame.
This helps your mate see you in a positive light and associate you with pleasant feelings, as they will continually have more good memories of you than bad.
If your partner wants to talk about your relationship, do so.
Just make sure you keep your cool, and instead of concentrating on whose to blame, concentrate on how to resurrect your relationship.
BURST AT THE RIMS WITH CONFIDENCE It's not just about keeping your cool - it's also about keeping your confidence.
Even if you're not feeling 100% confident, you can't let this come through in your actions.
Nobody wants an unstable partner lacking confidence.
Your confidence levels will affect the way your partner sees you.
Confidence is attractive, right? Right.
And there's nothing like seeming sure about yourself, to make another person pick up on your worth.
Confidence is contagious.
It will attract people from far and wide.
It will bring out your charm to your partner.
The thing is, you've got to go about it like it's your first romance.
Think back to the days when your relationship was the envy of others.
Rewind the clock and try to re-create these feelings.
GET A GAME PLAN! Everything that's been stated here so far will help you lay the foundation for your newly rebuilt relationship.
A simple foundation does not make a long-standing house - you need a maintenance plan as well! Nurturing your relationship is an ongoing process.
Building your relationship starts from today.
Don't wait another moment! It's important to take these steps now before your relationship further sours.
The ball is now in your court.
Go and do something about it before you lose your loved one forever.
Your next step? To take what you've just learned and put this to work right away.