What Makes A Man Feel Validated On Dates?

If you've ever seen any type of dating advice about how to make someone feel special on a date, the advice is usually geared toward guys who want to make a woman feel special. But what about the woman who wants to go out of her way to make her man feel special? Men love validation just as much, if not more than women, and it is important to show him that you appreciate him. Here are the ABCD's of making him feel as special as he makes you feel.

1. Ask questions. There are few things people love more than talking about themselves, and whether you've been together for 6 days or 6 months, he will never get tired of talking about himself. Guys love it when we ask them questions because it lets them know that we really do have an interest in their lives. Make sure that you don't just ask the same questions over and over again, and remember to avoid asking questions where the answer is just a "yes" or "no". Instead ask opened ended questions that will allow him to elaborate on the topic. If you aren't sure what to ask him, simply listen to the things he's saying and direct your questions accordingly.

2. Be kind. Kindness can really go a long way in making your date feel special. When are genuinely nice, it will change the entire atmosphere and make your date feel at ease. The kinder you are, the kinder your date will be, and as a result, your night will be much more enjoyable. Remember that smiling can oftentimes say what words can't, so when in doubt, smile.

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