Pleading and begging your ex lover to take you back is like begging a child to eat.
It will not happen.
You can go on bend a knee, but all will be in vain.
The best course of action is to take matters in your hands and force his hand.
Susan and Jason had met as youngsters at school, and fell head over heals for each other.
They were inseparable at school.
It was couple that was well known around school campus and used as a yardstick to what a loving couple should be.
Their love blossomed after they left school and consequently they got married and were blessed with two great children.
But, love is a funny thing.
Unlike wine it does not get better with time.
In marriage Susan grew very close to Jason.
Jason on the contrary found other people he felt were better than his life time companion Susan.
He lost the love for Susan.
Jason started 'playing the field'.
He created business trips were none existed.
He found something to do over the weekends.
He stayed out late during the week.
The little things he used to do for the family like taking them out became part of history.
He had no more time for them.
The signs of other people in the relationship and lost love became abundantly clear to Susan.
The worst moment for Susan came when Jason left his laptop on the table with an open email message.
Susan's suspicions were confirmed.
Jason was seeing another woman.
This fact led to Susan to start carrying out further investigation to what Jason was up to.
You always get what you put your mind to.
Susan soon discovered that Jason was not seeing only one other person, but a string of other women.
Her life came tumbling down.
She was shattered.
Jason's love was lost.
It dawned on her.
She confronted Jason who reacted by walking away from the family.
Susan could not believe what was happening to her life.
She went on bed a knee.
She reminded Jason about all they had gone through.
She begged.
She asked friends for their intervention.
She asked family for help.
It all went to waste.
Jason had moved on.
She did not know that love is an illogical feeling.
When love is lost, people do not react logically.
It is an emotional issue.
But, not all is lost.
If you truly believe that you can not do without your lover that is leaving you, you have to force his hand.
You can win back the lost love.
But how do you force the hand of your lost lover? How do you win him back without him freely consenting? That is the secret you have to learn.