How do you feel when you "get caught" checking out a girl? Simply because you understood that sentence, you know that it's common to think you're doing something wrong when checking out a girl.
Otherwise, why would "getting caught" be such a common and familiar phrase? What other things do you "get caught" doing? Cheating? Stealing? Cutting corners? Breaking the law? Sure, these things are all clearly WRONG, and you're not supposed to do them.
Which is why it's appropriate to use the term "get caught.
" But checking out a cute girl? A girl who likely spent a lot of time getting dressed so she'd get noticed? A girl who bought clothing and makeup supported by a BILLION DOLLAR industry, because outward appearances are so crucial to most girls? Why in the world would noticing, and APPRECIATING the presence and appearance of an attractive female be anything other than natural and healthy? Sure, it's one thing if you're hiding out in the bushes and furiously jacking it, but just walking down the street, and catching some cutie out of the corner of your eye? That's perfectly normal and natural.
Nothing wrong with it.
So why do girls sometimes give off looks as if they guy just escaped from pervert prison? Because she's not responding to the fact that you're checking her out.
She's respond to YOUR JUDGMENT OF YOURSELF while checking her out.
If you see a cute girl, and while you're admiring her, AND you think you're doing something wrong, you're going to come across as some porn store pervert.
BUT, if you see a cute girl, and you simply accept that it's normal, natural and HEALTHY for guys to appreciate girls, you'll literally make her day.
Think about this.
You're walking down the street, and you see something really nice to look at, OTHER THAN A GIRL.
Maybe a painting, or really well drawn graffiti, or maybe a really cute baby, what's your reaction? You just stop, look and enjoy.
You stand there with a safe and happy expression on your face.
Why not look at girls the same way? They will LOVE YOU for it.
Literally FORCE this thought in your mind next time you see an attractive women: "Wow, you're really pretty! I like looking at you! It makes me feel happy!" Just look at her, and smile.
An honest, "I like what I see," smile.
Not an "I'd like to bang the crap out of you!" smile.
This will give you MASSIVE amounts of self confidence and self esteem.
You'll get much better responses, and you'll find that girls will start to go out of there way to interact with you.
Otherwise, why would "getting caught" be such a common and familiar phrase? What other things do you "get caught" doing? Cheating? Stealing? Cutting corners? Breaking the law? Sure, these things are all clearly WRONG, and you're not supposed to do them.
Which is why it's appropriate to use the term "get caught.
" But checking out a cute girl? A girl who likely spent a lot of time getting dressed so she'd get noticed? A girl who bought clothing and makeup supported by a BILLION DOLLAR industry, because outward appearances are so crucial to most girls? Why in the world would noticing, and APPRECIATING the presence and appearance of an attractive female be anything other than natural and healthy? Sure, it's one thing if you're hiding out in the bushes and furiously jacking it, but just walking down the street, and catching some cutie out of the corner of your eye? That's perfectly normal and natural.
Nothing wrong with it.
So why do girls sometimes give off looks as if they guy just escaped from pervert prison? Because she's not responding to the fact that you're checking her out.
She's respond to YOUR JUDGMENT OF YOURSELF while checking her out.
If you see a cute girl, and while you're admiring her, AND you think you're doing something wrong, you're going to come across as some porn store pervert.
BUT, if you see a cute girl, and you simply accept that it's normal, natural and HEALTHY for guys to appreciate girls, you'll literally make her day.
Think about this.
You're walking down the street, and you see something really nice to look at, OTHER THAN A GIRL.
Maybe a painting, or really well drawn graffiti, or maybe a really cute baby, what's your reaction? You just stop, look and enjoy.
You stand there with a safe and happy expression on your face.
Why not look at girls the same way? They will LOVE YOU for it.
Literally FORCE this thought in your mind next time you see an attractive women: "Wow, you're really pretty! I like looking at you! It makes me feel happy!" Just look at her, and smile.
An honest, "I like what I see," smile.
Not an "I'd like to bang the crap out of you!" smile.
This will give you MASSIVE amounts of self confidence and self esteem.
You'll get much better responses, and you'll find that girls will start to go out of there way to interact with you.