You can help chemistry along a bit even though it seems mysterious. The best start is a good rapport, spiked with a little humor and if you can throw in a bit of excitement you are away. First you have to build a good rapport and then you can build up any chemistry.

It might not be enough to have only been on one or two dates together, the rapport might not have quite developed yet. If you want to create that rapport, you need to find a topic you are mutually interested in and can form a bond over. But make sure the topic is not to intense but rather pleasant and low-stress. You may discover you are both extremely interested in saving the environment, but that topic doesn't help to associate you with pleasure and fun.

Laughter makes us feel at ease with one another, so use a bit of humor whenever you can. It doesn't mean you have to be a stand up comedian, just be yourself and use your own style. But it is important to keep it clean and neutral so no offending takes place.

How can you have chemistry in relationships with people who don't know who you really are? Don't keep your opinion to yourself because you are afraid your partner might not like it. It's scary but do share your thoughts and feelings when you are discussing important issues. Just some little off-hand comment can make your date fall for you hard.

Becoming physical on your first date, like touching arm or knee might not be such a good idea. Just be careful because if you become physical too early on, it might just turn your partner off for good. Maybe just start talking what each of you finds physically attractive in the opposite sex and then you can use that information to your advantage.

Do you think the chemistry in your relationships just happens? If that's your way of thinking, keep on reading you might be surprised. It is probably not possible to create chemistry where there is none, but if that initial spark is there, there's a lot you can do to keep it going.