Have you been going out with that special someone for awhile? Is your relationship beginning to feel like something serious? Perhaps thoughts of marriage have even entered your mind. If your answer to these questions was 'yes', it would be adviseable for you to ask each other certain questions that will help you to get to know each other more fully.
To get you going on this activity, these are my top 20 questions for couples:
1. What is the one thing you would change about yourself if you had the power to do so?
2. What one thing would you change about me, if you were able to?
3. What, more than anything else, makes you feel loved?
4. What does success mean to you?
5. What would you change first if you were the king (or queen) of the world?
6. If you were able to journey back in time, which historical event would you like to witness?
7. If you could journey back in time, which historical event would you like to alter?
8. What do people do that annoys you more than anything else?
9. Where in the world would you most like to live?
10. What is the most important thing you want to accomplish before you die?
11. Have you learned any lessons from past relationships? What were they?
12. Do you seek certain things in a person? What are those?
13. In your judgement, what are your best attributes?
14. What's the most irresponsible thing you've ever done?
15. What's your most memorable moment?
16. If you won the lottery what would you do with your winnings?
17. If you were going to a deserted island, what three items would you bring with you?
18. What period in history would you have liked to lived in and why?
19. What are you most passionate about?
20. What's one place you haven't visited yet that you really want to go?
I hope that my top 20 questions for couples will help to inspire some important dialogue between you and your lover. I'm sure you can think of some more "get to know" questions, and even some fun questions for couples. I suggest open-ended questions rather than "yes' or 'no' questions, because they stimulate more in-depth discussion. Putting forth some effort to better understand each other now will have long term rewards for both of you.
See my sig for more information that will help you to build a strong foundation for a lasting relationship.
To get you going on this activity, these are my top 20 questions for couples:
1. What is the one thing you would change about yourself if you had the power to do so?
2. What one thing would you change about me, if you were able to?
3. What, more than anything else, makes you feel loved?
4. What does success mean to you?
5. What would you change first if you were the king (or queen) of the world?
6. If you were able to journey back in time, which historical event would you like to witness?
7. If you could journey back in time, which historical event would you like to alter?
8. What do people do that annoys you more than anything else?
9. Where in the world would you most like to live?
10. What is the most important thing you want to accomplish before you die?
11. Have you learned any lessons from past relationships? What were they?
12. Do you seek certain things in a person? What are those?
13. In your judgement, what are your best attributes?
14. What's the most irresponsible thing you've ever done?
15. What's your most memorable moment?
16. If you won the lottery what would you do with your winnings?
17. If you were going to a deserted island, what three items would you bring with you?
18. What period in history would you have liked to lived in and why?
19. What are you most passionate about?
20. What's one place you haven't visited yet that you really want to go?
I hope that my top 20 questions for couples will help to inspire some important dialogue between you and your lover. I'm sure you can think of some more "get to know" questions, and even some fun questions for couples. I suggest open-ended questions rather than "yes' or 'no' questions, because they stimulate more in-depth discussion. Putting forth some effort to better understand each other now will have long term rewards for both of you.
See my sig for more information that will help you to build a strong foundation for a lasting relationship.