When you find yourself going through a breakup you didn't want, you can start to feel a bit desperate. The one you love is leaving your life and you feel lost and lonely. The only thing you can think of is how much you need and want them in your life, to the point where you are ready to do anything to make it happen. If you find yourself in that situation, some things can help you get back the ex in less then a week.
Here are a few suggestions that may work in getting the one you love back. But, as with anything, when you use desperation sometimes it can blow up in your face. However, there are also times when desperation is needed in order to truly prove that you are so in love you deserve another chance, and get it.
Guilt is a wondrous thing. The human emotion can be manipulated and guilted into doing things that it was against before. This is proven in ongoing relationships today when one partner wants something, they use manipulation, or guilt to get it and it works. But before throwing a guilt trip on your ex, think about what would actually work and what would make them feel guilty enough to take you back.
Promises are made to be broken is the old saying, but this is not a time to break promises. However, it is a perfect time to make a whole new set of promises. The only way this can work is to make a promise and then fulfill it right away so they can see you are serious. If they see you are willing to change and to be what they want, they'll be more inclined to take you back.
Shower them with gifts, but not truly expensive things unless you have an endless supply of money. You know what they likes so focus on that. If they like a certain singer, look for a CD that they don't have or make a compilation yourself. Be nonchalant when you give the gifts in person, say something like, "I saw this and thought of you". That will melt a girl's heart and boost a guy's ego.
If you are going to try to use jealousy to get them back, you better do it right, or it will backfire. As soon as you can, pick someone and start dating them or be seen with them in public where your ex can see you or their friends can to let him or her know. That will spark a confrontation, as your ex is still hurting from the breakup too. This is exactly what you want, so you have to be pathetic here. Sadly tell them that all you do is think of them and you figured that if you dated someone, maybe the hurt would go away. Then, very softly tell them that it isn't working. That will gain you some sympathy and soften them up even more.
Stalking is illegal, but you can do it in a way where it doesn't appear to be stalking. Arrange things so that wherever they are going to be, you are going to be also. It will have to look like a coincidence at first. They may accuse you of following them, and of course they'll be right, but you have to act like your feelings are hurt by such an accusation. But the more they see you, the harder it will be for them to try to move on and leave you behind.
If you truly want your ex back, you really can't just give up and wallow in self-pity. Not everyone can get back the ex in less then a week, but it isn't impossible. The worse the break up was, the longer it may take to get back together. But with desperation and determination, you'll be able to put in your best efforts and likely see results.
Here are a few suggestions that may work in getting the one you love back. But, as with anything, when you use desperation sometimes it can blow up in your face. However, there are also times when desperation is needed in order to truly prove that you are so in love you deserve another chance, and get it.
Guilt is a wondrous thing. The human emotion can be manipulated and guilted into doing things that it was against before. This is proven in ongoing relationships today when one partner wants something, they use manipulation, or guilt to get it and it works. But before throwing a guilt trip on your ex, think about what would actually work and what would make them feel guilty enough to take you back.
Promises are made to be broken is the old saying, but this is not a time to break promises. However, it is a perfect time to make a whole new set of promises. The only way this can work is to make a promise and then fulfill it right away so they can see you are serious. If they see you are willing to change and to be what they want, they'll be more inclined to take you back.
Shower them with gifts, but not truly expensive things unless you have an endless supply of money. You know what they likes so focus on that. If they like a certain singer, look for a CD that they don't have or make a compilation yourself. Be nonchalant when you give the gifts in person, say something like, "I saw this and thought of you". That will melt a girl's heart and boost a guy's ego.
If you are going to try to use jealousy to get them back, you better do it right, or it will backfire. As soon as you can, pick someone and start dating them or be seen with them in public where your ex can see you or their friends can to let him or her know. That will spark a confrontation, as your ex is still hurting from the breakup too. This is exactly what you want, so you have to be pathetic here. Sadly tell them that all you do is think of them and you figured that if you dated someone, maybe the hurt would go away. Then, very softly tell them that it isn't working. That will gain you some sympathy and soften them up even more.
Stalking is illegal, but you can do it in a way where it doesn't appear to be stalking. Arrange things so that wherever they are going to be, you are going to be also. It will have to look like a coincidence at first. They may accuse you of following them, and of course they'll be right, but you have to act like your feelings are hurt by such an accusation. But the more they see you, the harder it will be for them to try to move on and leave you behind.
If you truly want your ex back, you really can't just give up and wallow in self-pity. Not everyone can get back the ex in less then a week, but it isn't impossible. The worse the break up was, the longer it may take to get back together. But with desperation and determination, you'll be able to put in your best efforts and likely see results.