Recently break up with the love of your life? From personal experience, I can tell you that this is one of the worst possible feelings a man could ever conjure.
That feeling in your gut when you find out you lost the love of your life, and the worst part of it all is that lame excuse that she provided you, "Things aren't working out.
" Most men ask themselves "what do I do now?" or "how can I get her back?" The answers to those questions are not out of reach for anyone.
You have to have a starting point though.
Luckily for you I can only recommend one answer.
Give your ex the time she needs.
Do not contact, talk, or meet with her.
Just give her space she wants.
At this point you may think I am crazy, but bare with me.
Most guys in the break up situation panic and think that calling and texting your ex hundreds of times is going to show her that you really care.
I can tell you when my ex dumped me, that is what I did, and every time I talked to her we always ended in a fight.
This left me feeling that she was moving further and further away from me.
The reason you have to give her time is because in order for her to want you back, she has to miss you.
Women need appreciation, and there is nothing you can do but respect her decision to call it quits...
for the time being.
Give her a minimum of 3-4 weeks of her time away from you.
This is going to be an extremely hard time for anyone to go through, so you need to keep busy and not dwell on what your ex is doing.