My Ex Girlfriend Is Still On My Mind - I Can" t Stop Thinking About Her
It's very normal to find yourself still thinking about your ex girlfriend after the break up, so you shouldn't feel too weird about it if you find yourself thinking about her. What you should try to do is keep those thoughts to a minimum, though, so you don't end up becoming obsessed with thinking about her. That can be an easy thing to do and it is one of those things that just kind of creeps up on you. You should also think about WHY it is that you are still thinking about her, even after the break up.
Sometimes it doesn't mean anything more than you are just still trying to process what happened. Sometimes, though, it means that you wish that she wasn't your ex girlfriend and that is what I am going to talk about right now. If you find yourself thinking about your ex girlfriend in a very romantic way, then it probably is due to the fact that you really didn't want to break up and you probably want her back in your life.
Knowing that can be a good thing.
It's better to know what you want instead of being confused about what you want. Still, just knowing that you want her back isn't going to automatically put her back in your life as your girlfriend. So, while it may be nice to think about her, you have to do MORE than that if you want to actually get back together with her.
THINK ABOUT... WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE?
One of the things that you might want to think about is what is it that needs to change in order for the relationship to work out and for her to want you back as her boyfriend. Because, in all honesty, if nothing changes - you really can't expect to win her back. There wouldn't be much of any reason for her to come back to you if everything is going to stay the way that it was and remember, the way that it was is why she broke up with you in the first place.
Once you know what needs to change and you make those changes, that is when you need to figure out how to both show her that you have really changed AND make her feel attracted to the "new you" at the same time. If you can do that, show her that you have changed and make her feel like she is attracted to you again... getting her back can be a snap.
Sometimes it doesn't mean anything more than you are just still trying to process what happened. Sometimes, though, it means that you wish that she wasn't your ex girlfriend and that is what I am going to talk about right now. If you find yourself thinking about your ex girlfriend in a very romantic way, then it probably is due to the fact that you really didn't want to break up and you probably want her back in your life.
Knowing that can be a good thing.
It's better to know what you want instead of being confused about what you want. Still, just knowing that you want her back isn't going to automatically put her back in your life as your girlfriend. So, while it may be nice to think about her, you have to do MORE than that if you want to actually get back together with her.
THINK ABOUT... WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE?
One of the things that you might want to think about is what is it that needs to change in order for the relationship to work out and for her to want you back as her boyfriend. Because, in all honesty, if nothing changes - you really can't expect to win her back. There wouldn't be much of any reason for her to come back to you if everything is going to stay the way that it was and remember, the way that it was is why she broke up with you in the first place.
Once you know what needs to change and you make those changes, that is when you need to figure out how to both show her that you have really changed AND make her feel attracted to the "new you" at the same time. If you can do that, show her that you have changed and make her feel like she is attracted to you again... getting her back can be a snap.