A breakup is quite devastating for anyone.
But after our temper has cooled down and we are rational again, most of us want our ex back.
From this article you can derive some ideas on how to get back together with your ex.
While approaching your ex for the first time after breakup, you want everything to be perfect.
Some persons procrastinate this moment as long as possible as they keep wondering what is the right thing to say.
Although you must not keep any contact with your ex for some time just after the breakup, don't delay it too long by waiting for the right time and right things to say.
It can so happen that by the time you feel you are ready (i,e after a long gap), someone else has taken your place.
After the breakup you should give some breathing space to your ex and not do a pile up act on them.
It is the time for both of you to reflect what went wrong in the relationship.
Once you understand the underlying problem for the breakup, try to rectify it.
Be realistic and don't put the whole blame on your ex.
Remember one cannot clap with one hand.
So be a little harsh on yourself and accept your part of the responsibility for the breakup.
Is it because of something in your nature (being cruel, abusive) or you have some vices? Think hard and make up your mind about what and how much you are willing to change yourself to get back with your ex.
Be clear in your mind that no amount of gifts, flowers or cajoling is going to help you in betting back together with your ex unless you are able to address the main issues in your conflicts.
While waiting for your ex to contact you or vice versa, don't sit at home and brood.
Go out socialize and have some fun.
You deserve it.
True, you are not up to it but you must.
Believe me, it will make your ex notice you too and is an added advantage in your endeavor to get back your ex.
After the breakup, the other party will always be curious to know about your activities and whereabouts.
And the more your ex knows about your social life, he / she will feel the breakup did not affect you much and might regret leaving you.
But after our temper has cooled down and we are rational again, most of us want our ex back.
From this article you can derive some ideas on how to get back together with your ex.
While approaching your ex for the first time after breakup, you want everything to be perfect.
Some persons procrastinate this moment as long as possible as they keep wondering what is the right thing to say.
Although you must not keep any contact with your ex for some time just after the breakup, don't delay it too long by waiting for the right time and right things to say.
It can so happen that by the time you feel you are ready (i,e after a long gap), someone else has taken your place.
After the breakup you should give some breathing space to your ex and not do a pile up act on them.
It is the time for both of you to reflect what went wrong in the relationship.
Once you understand the underlying problem for the breakup, try to rectify it.
Be realistic and don't put the whole blame on your ex.
Remember one cannot clap with one hand.
So be a little harsh on yourself and accept your part of the responsibility for the breakup.
Is it because of something in your nature (being cruel, abusive) or you have some vices? Think hard and make up your mind about what and how much you are willing to change yourself to get back with your ex.
Be clear in your mind that no amount of gifts, flowers or cajoling is going to help you in betting back together with your ex unless you are able to address the main issues in your conflicts.
While waiting for your ex to contact you or vice versa, don't sit at home and brood.
Go out socialize and have some fun.
You deserve it.
True, you are not up to it but you must.
Believe me, it will make your ex notice you too and is an added advantage in your endeavor to get back your ex.
After the breakup, the other party will always be curious to know about your activities and whereabouts.
And the more your ex knows about your social life, he / she will feel the breakup did not affect you much and might regret leaving you.