Why It" s Just As Easy To Get A Girlfriend Now Instead Of Waiting For Later
Have you ever met someone who was always preparing to do something, yet as much as they seemed to be preparing, they never really did what they said they were going to do? Lots of guys do that when it comes to getting a girlfriend. They talk about all of the things that they are going to do so that one day, they have an easy time attracting women. You know what happens to most of these guys? They just keep on preparing and don't do a whole lot to actually go out and meet women.
Here is why it is just as easy to try to get a girlfriend now instead of waiting for later:
1) Experience will teach you a lot more about women and what they like than reading about it will.
There are some great tips that you can find in articles, blogs, and books about what you need to do to get better with women but none of them are going to give you the insights that experience does. There's no sense in reading volumes about what you need to do to attract a woman if you are not going to take a little action every now and again.
2) The right woman sometimes appears when you least expect it.
You really can't predict when you are going to meet the right woman. You might try to pin point the time when that is most likely to happen, but that doesn't mean that she's not going to come when you least expect it. All of that time you are spending trying to get ready to get a girlfriend might go to waste if you pass up on an opportunity to ask a woman out just because you are preparing to get ready.
3) Meeting women is a numbers game and the more you play, the more likely you are to succeed.
You can't expect to go out one night, meet the right woman and that's it, you're all done. Chances are good you are going to have to meet several women before you meet one that really seems to be your type and the sooner you get ready to go out and meet women, the sooner it will probably be that you see some success. Any little bit of success (getting a number, a date, etc.) is good for your ego and your motivation. You won't get that from preparing, you get that by doing.
Here is why it is just as easy to try to get a girlfriend now instead of waiting for later:
1) Experience will teach you a lot more about women and what they like than reading about it will.
There are some great tips that you can find in articles, blogs, and books about what you need to do to get better with women but none of them are going to give you the insights that experience does. There's no sense in reading volumes about what you need to do to attract a woman if you are not going to take a little action every now and again.
2) The right woman sometimes appears when you least expect it.
You really can't predict when you are going to meet the right woman. You might try to pin point the time when that is most likely to happen, but that doesn't mean that she's not going to come when you least expect it. All of that time you are spending trying to get ready to get a girlfriend might go to waste if you pass up on an opportunity to ask a woman out just because you are preparing to get ready.
3) Meeting women is a numbers game and the more you play, the more likely you are to succeed.
You can't expect to go out one night, meet the right woman and that's it, you're all done. Chances are good you are going to have to meet several women before you meet one that really seems to be your type and the sooner you get ready to go out and meet women, the sooner it will probably be that you see some success. Any little bit of success (getting a number, a date, etc.) is good for your ego and your motivation. You won't get that from preparing, you get that by doing.