How Do I Get Out of the Friend Zone? - 3 Things to Start Doing Differently Now
The beautiful girl you are friends with is "just a friend" due to certain reasons.
It's because of what you're doing and who you're being that things are not progressing.
I am going to answer the question for you - how DO I get out of the friend zone? Following are the things about you that she will find attractive.
Rule #1 - You Are Slightly Indifferent Toward Her You might be seriously interested in her, but you never let her know it directly.
I know how much you want to let her know that you like her a lot, but that's never how it works out in the real world.
What you need to do is be indirect about it - never reveal your emotions directly.
The only way this is going to work out is when SHE gets so attracted to you that she reveals her emotions first, OR you are a man with initiative and you build up sexual tension and go finally in for the kiss.
Rule #2 - You Have Other Women In Your Life When you're out with her, even while you're having a conversation, look around at the really beautiful girls there.
Say "damn, that girl is really hot!".
Be open about your desires and wants.
If you like something, say it (of course, keep in mind Rule #1).
Don't always be free when she invites you somewhere.
Build up such a strong personal life that you ALWAYS have things going for you.
Go to clubs, take up hobbies.
Try out dance lessons, art classes, creative writing, theatre, things of that nature.
I find that besides giving you something to do, it's also a great place to meet new people (and new women!).
If your friend is not the only attractive girl that you know, then that will bump up your chances of her seeing you as more than a friend.
Rule #3 - You Are Ambiguous Now, what does "ambiguous" mean? Say one thing, then say the opposite.
"You know, I really like it that we're only friends..
by the way, you have such soft skin".
This builds up tension and mystique! She will be wondering what you really mean and will be thinking about you.
Okay, you need have followed the Rules #1 and #2 so she sees you as a valuable man.
But at the same time dial up the tension! Start discussing sex when you feel like it.
Take the taboo off this subject.
It's a normal part of human experience.
The basic nature of humans is SEXUALITY.
Be open about it.
Discuss it like you're talking about sports or the weather.
It's actually quite fascinating.
Don't be overly eager about it, but tell her some of the things you like most about sex.
Describe what a girl did to you to please you.
And when you've been talking for a while, stop and look at her and say: "Come on, this is unfair! I am giving out so much details and you're not giving me anything back in return!".
Get her to share some details, like what her favorite position is and so on.
If she feels uncomfortable, keep it in the "friend" frame, like you're looking for some advice that you can use to make a girl really happy in the future and she will thank her for it.
Get her to share.
Try doing these things.
It can take a while to get used to seeing yourself in a different light and becoming a man who not only uses these techniques, but actually LIVES the words.
It's about who you ARE and who you BECOME.
It's because of what you're doing and who you're being that things are not progressing.
I am going to answer the question for you - how DO I get out of the friend zone? Following are the things about you that she will find attractive.
Rule #1 - You Are Slightly Indifferent Toward Her You might be seriously interested in her, but you never let her know it directly.
I know how much you want to let her know that you like her a lot, but that's never how it works out in the real world.
What you need to do is be indirect about it - never reveal your emotions directly.
The only way this is going to work out is when SHE gets so attracted to you that she reveals her emotions first, OR you are a man with initiative and you build up sexual tension and go finally in for the kiss.
Rule #2 - You Have Other Women In Your Life When you're out with her, even while you're having a conversation, look around at the really beautiful girls there.
Say "damn, that girl is really hot!".
Be open about your desires and wants.
If you like something, say it (of course, keep in mind Rule #1).
Don't always be free when she invites you somewhere.
Build up such a strong personal life that you ALWAYS have things going for you.
Go to clubs, take up hobbies.
Try out dance lessons, art classes, creative writing, theatre, things of that nature.
I find that besides giving you something to do, it's also a great place to meet new people (and new women!).
If your friend is not the only attractive girl that you know, then that will bump up your chances of her seeing you as more than a friend.
Rule #3 - You Are Ambiguous Now, what does "ambiguous" mean? Say one thing, then say the opposite.
"You know, I really like it that we're only friends..
by the way, you have such soft skin".
This builds up tension and mystique! She will be wondering what you really mean and will be thinking about you.
Okay, you need have followed the Rules #1 and #2 so she sees you as a valuable man.
But at the same time dial up the tension! Start discussing sex when you feel like it.
Take the taboo off this subject.
It's a normal part of human experience.
The basic nature of humans is SEXUALITY.
Be open about it.
Discuss it like you're talking about sports or the weather.
It's actually quite fascinating.
Don't be overly eager about it, but tell her some of the things you like most about sex.
Describe what a girl did to you to please you.
And when you've been talking for a while, stop and look at her and say: "Come on, this is unfair! I am giving out so much details and you're not giving me anything back in return!".
Get her to share some details, like what her favorite position is and so on.
If she feels uncomfortable, keep it in the "friend" frame, like you're looking for some advice that you can use to make a girl really happy in the future and she will thank her for it.
Get her to share.
Try doing these things.
It can take a while to get used to seeing yourself in a different light and becoming a man who not only uses these techniques, but actually LIVES the words.
It's about who you ARE and who you BECOME.