How to Make Your Ex Want You Instead of Avoid You? - You Won"t Be Avoided After This Point
A breakup can be devastating and mind-numbing, and your ex could try to forget the pain simply by avoiding you.
If you want to get your ex back into your life then you will need to reverse the situation and make your ex want you instead of avoiding you.
Here are some steps that will have your ex running towards you instead of running away from you.
Let absence make your ex's heart grow fonder By constantly materializing in front of your ex like a bad dream, you will only be scratching on fresh wounds.
You thus need to walk away from your ex for a few weeks so as to let those wounds heal.
Your ex might start thinking calmly about you once you are not in his/her face and might also realize that he/she could have over-reacted during the breakup.
A makeover still works Although this is the most common form of advice that will be offered by your loved ones, the fact is that people love to see positive changes in looks and attitude.
While on your break, why not put that advice into action? Visit a salon to get that look you always dreamt about, and one that your ex could have indicated that he/she would have loved on you.
Make a visual and psychological impact In addition to exfoliated skin and a neat haircut you will also need smart clothes to complete the package.
You should definitely get a boost to your ego once you look at yourself in the mirror and this is what should be conveyed to your ex when you return back, i.
e.
a fresher and smarter person brimming with self-confidence.
Smile through your ordeal Let your confidence seep into your general life too.
Do not let the breakup turn you into a bitter recluse but instead, start out with a new job or get back into your old work routine as quickly as you can.
Meet new people, develop new hobbies, and more importantly, talk pleasantly to your ex if you do meet up with him/her.
Your positive-ness will surely be noted and appreciated by your ex and any feelings of anger too will quickly evaporate from within your ex.
Expand your social circle You should start turning into a social person by attending parties or other social functions.
This will not only enable you to make new friends but also make your ex envy you, especially if you are surrounded by other people that show added interest in your new status.
Help your ex with a poker face If you ex asks for help then do so, but remain cordial during the entire process.
This will make your ex dependent on you again, while your cordial attitude will make him/her develop feelings for you again.
Do the vanishing trick once again Once you notice your ex noticing you with love in his/her eyes then do the vanishing trick once again for a week or so.
By the time you return back, your ex would be on his/her knees simply waiting to propose to you once again.
If you want to get your ex back into your life then you will need to reverse the situation and make your ex want you instead of avoiding you.
Here are some steps that will have your ex running towards you instead of running away from you.
Let absence make your ex's heart grow fonder By constantly materializing in front of your ex like a bad dream, you will only be scratching on fresh wounds.
You thus need to walk away from your ex for a few weeks so as to let those wounds heal.
Your ex might start thinking calmly about you once you are not in his/her face and might also realize that he/she could have over-reacted during the breakup.
A makeover still works Although this is the most common form of advice that will be offered by your loved ones, the fact is that people love to see positive changes in looks and attitude.
While on your break, why not put that advice into action? Visit a salon to get that look you always dreamt about, and one that your ex could have indicated that he/she would have loved on you.
Make a visual and psychological impact In addition to exfoliated skin and a neat haircut you will also need smart clothes to complete the package.
You should definitely get a boost to your ego once you look at yourself in the mirror and this is what should be conveyed to your ex when you return back, i.
e.
a fresher and smarter person brimming with self-confidence.
Smile through your ordeal Let your confidence seep into your general life too.
Do not let the breakup turn you into a bitter recluse but instead, start out with a new job or get back into your old work routine as quickly as you can.
Meet new people, develop new hobbies, and more importantly, talk pleasantly to your ex if you do meet up with him/her.
Your positive-ness will surely be noted and appreciated by your ex and any feelings of anger too will quickly evaporate from within your ex.
Expand your social circle You should start turning into a social person by attending parties or other social functions.
This will not only enable you to make new friends but also make your ex envy you, especially if you are surrounded by other people that show added interest in your new status.
Help your ex with a poker face If you ex asks for help then do so, but remain cordial during the entire process.
This will make your ex dependent on you again, while your cordial attitude will make him/her develop feelings for you again.
Do the vanishing trick once again Once you notice your ex noticing you with love in his/her eyes then do the vanishing trick once again for a week or so.
By the time you return back, your ex would be on his/her knees simply waiting to propose to you once again.