You have probably made many efforts to save the relationship with your ex.
You have tried begging, blaming, demanding, and everything else imaginable.
But it seems as though the harder you try the worse things seem to get, and the further away your ex is pushed...
If you keep up this act, you can guarantee there is no hope of ever getting back with your ex again.
Like going east searching for a sunset, you will keep heading east and always head the wrong direction.
You must change the direction you are headed if you with to save the relationship with your ex partner.
You see, in order to make things right you must stop for a minute and approach this from an entirely new angle.
1.
The first step is realizing that you have things completely wrong.
Your efforts come out of desperation, hopelessness, needing, force and fear.
These are by human nature repulsive qualities.
In other words, we are naturally repulsed by these qualities.
No one likes desperation, to fee needed, forced upon, or to feel fear.
By trying to make up with your ex, you have become unaware of the negative things you are imposing on them in the process.
This is a serious problem and it must be changed immediately! In order to change things right now, you must stop completely, acting these ways, and instead acting out of confidence, unselfishness, being caring, kind and most importantly un-neediness.
This is essentially a complete 180 from the way you have been acting.
It's the only way you will make a quick rapid change.
2.
To successfully bring them back, it's important to give them some space to clear their mind and deal with their feelings.
After breakups, people will go through a period of irrationalization.
You need to allow this irrationalization to pass, because in this state, we make decisions based on feelings more than what's actually right.
If you keep bothering your ex, they will make decisions based on feeling irritated, angry, frustrated with you.
Give this time to pass!