You Had Sex With Your Ex Boyfriend - Why This Won"t Help You Get Him Back
You had sex with your ex boyfriend.
You now feel that with the renewed connection the two of you have experienced that he'll feel compelled to come back to you.
It's understandable why you'd have such high hopes.
After all, the intimacy was wonderful and you felt closer to him on every level than you have in a very long time.
Unfortunately, he just doesn't see the situation the same way you do.
Sleeping with your ex may have seriously impacted any chance you had of getting him back.
When you had sex with your ex boyfriend you likely felt driven from an emotional place.
You wanted to feel connected to him again and making love seems like a perfect way to do it.
Once it's over you have visions of the two of you proclaiming your undying love for one another and the break up becoming a distant memory of the past.
Women are wired much differently than men.
Your boyfriend likely slept with you because he remembered how much he enjoyed the intimacy.
It's very possible that the idea of getting back together hasn't crossed his mind at all.
If a woman sleeps with an ex with the hope that he'll want to be with her again, she'll be crushed when she learns that he may now view her as a casual sex partner and little else.
You are, in essence, accepting the role of lover if you sleep with an ex.
He will see it as a way to have a physical relationship without all the strings that come with a romantic entanglement.
Sadly, some men don't fully understand the difficult emotional place they push their exes into when they have sex.
He may treat you a bit differently than he has recently only because he's hoping the love making will continue.
It's very easy for a woman who is still in love with her ex boyfriend to misread this.
Once you've slept with him, expect him to call you more and want to see you more.
There is a way to undo this mistake.
You need to put the brakes on any future physical relationship with your ex boyfriend, at least in the short term.
Make it clear to him that although you very much enjoy intimacy with him, that you can't put yourself into that place emotionally anymore.
If he cares about you, he'll completely understand.
You now feel that with the renewed connection the two of you have experienced that he'll feel compelled to come back to you.
It's understandable why you'd have such high hopes.
After all, the intimacy was wonderful and you felt closer to him on every level than you have in a very long time.
Unfortunately, he just doesn't see the situation the same way you do.
Sleeping with your ex may have seriously impacted any chance you had of getting him back.
When you had sex with your ex boyfriend you likely felt driven from an emotional place.
You wanted to feel connected to him again and making love seems like a perfect way to do it.
Once it's over you have visions of the two of you proclaiming your undying love for one another and the break up becoming a distant memory of the past.
Women are wired much differently than men.
Your boyfriend likely slept with you because he remembered how much he enjoyed the intimacy.
It's very possible that the idea of getting back together hasn't crossed his mind at all.
If a woman sleeps with an ex with the hope that he'll want to be with her again, she'll be crushed when she learns that he may now view her as a casual sex partner and little else.
You are, in essence, accepting the role of lover if you sleep with an ex.
He will see it as a way to have a physical relationship without all the strings that come with a romantic entanglement.
Sadly, some men don't fully understand the difficult emotional place they push their exes into when they have sex.
He may treat you a bit differently than he has recently only because he's hoping the love making will continue.
It's very easy for a woman who is still in love with her ex boyfriend to misread this.
Once you've slept with him, expect him to call you more and want to see you more.
There is a way to undo this mistake.
You need to put the brakes on any future physical relationship with your ex boyfriend, at least in the short term.
Make it clear to him that although you very much enjoy intimacy with him, that you can't put yourself into that place emotionally anymore.
If he cares about you, he'll completely understand.