There are many reasons why couples break up and go their own way, arguments, incompatibility, no passion, lack of trust, lack of sex and many, many more.
Understanding why the relationship broke down in the first place is obviously a big step in the right direction.
For those wondering how to get back together with your ex, this article will hopefully help.
Straight after a breakup there is often what's known as "the blame game" going on where couples blame each other for the breakup.
However straight after the break up there's is also the stage where one profusely blames themselves for the break up and they often go "all out" to show their love for their ex.
They will apologize for everything, blame themselves for everything and basically just beg their ex to take them back.
This however should be avoided at all costs, there is nothing worse than a sad needy person, you don't want your ex feeling sorry for you because it's not the same and most probably never will be the same as them loving you again, this is not how to get back together with your ex.
Give you ex a bit of space.
Time apart often brings memories flooding back, especially of the good times.
As the saying goes, "absence makes the heart grow fonder".
If you're constantly annoying your ex by trying to make up with them all the time or texting them constantly then you're really just annoying them and justifying to them that the reason that they left you was right.
Keep your emotions in check.
This can often be a fatal mistake in relationships where you just "lose control".
If your emotions are constantly running wild then you need to take some time out and just relax.
Take the time to think about what you are doing and what feelings are going on inside.
This way when the opportunity arises where you ex is present then your emotions aren't going to get carried away.