One Main Reason Why You Are Still Single - Stop Making This Mistake!
The fist main mistake is in your daily attitude; It is likely that, if you have been single for a while (or if you have gone from bad relationship to bad relationship) you harbour some negative thoughts about your potential dating abilities.
You may think there's something wrong with you, that you 'missed the boat' so to speak, that there's no one out there for you, that you are doomed to either be alone or compromise for a 'lesser' relationship, and so on.
These negative thoughts are bad for you on so many levels: first of all, they destroy your self-esteem; secondly, they create a very skewed reality around you and you won't be able to even 'see' the opportunities out there; thirdly, it'll make you either depressed or desperate, which are both 'repellents' (nobody who's psychological and emotionally healthy wants to be with a depressed or desperate person).
Lastly, a negative mindset can only bring negative results.
So, shed those negative thoughts away now.
Replace them with the opposite and know that the opposite thoughts are the reality.
Every time you find yourself thinking a negative thought, immediately replace it with the opposing positive thought and believe it.
So, tell yourself 'I have a lot to offer', 'I have great qualities many people have found attractive', ' there are people who would love to be with me right now if only I gave them the chance to meet me' and so on.
It'll be hard at the beginning to believe these positive thoughts but eventually - if you keep repeating them in your head - you will believe them and that's the secret of your future success.
Positive thinking yields positive results.
Every person you consider to be 'lucky in love' is actually carrying a huge amount of positive thoughts in his/her mind; she/he subsequently acts upon those positive thoughts and that, per se, renders them successful with meeting nd attracting people.
If you change your thinking today, you will see a change in your emotional life.
You will also see a change in yourself (you will be happier, more confident, more interesting, more engaged in your own life - all attributes that will make you more attractive in the eyes of any potential partner).
So, it's a win/win situation! It's a very interesting concept but it is infinitely true: in life we get what we think we deserve.
Consciously or even just subconsciously.
If - deep down - you don't think you deserve (or that you are not good enough for) a great partner who loves you for who you are, then you can almost be sure that you will not meet him/her.
It sounds like a new age cliché but it's in fact quite true: every action, no matter how small, derives from our own thinking; our actions determine the results we obtain.
So, you can see how it's all connected together.
So, if you love yourself little, you will only attract people who love you little.
As you learn to love yourself and appreciate yourself more, you will attract people who will love you more! That's why many say that the first rule of success is to focus on yourself, as explained on N1 Love RULE.
You may think there's something wrong with you, that you 'missed the boat' so to speak, that there's no one out there for you, that you are doomed to either be alone or compromise for a 'lesser' relationship, and so on.
These negative thoughts are bad for you on so many levels: first of all, they destroy your self-esteem; secondly, they create a very skewed reality around you and you won't be able to even 'see' the opportunities out there; thirdly, it'll make you either depressed or desperate, which are both 'repellents' (nobody who's psychological and emotionally healthy wants to be with a depressed or desperate person).
Lastly, a negative mindset can only bring negative results.
So, shed those negative thoughts away now.
Replace them with the opposite and know that the opposite thoughts are the reality.
Every time you find yourself thinking a negative thought, immediately replace it with the opposing positive thought and believe it.
So, tell yourself 'I have a lot to offer', 'I have great qualities many people have found attractive', ' there are people who would love to be with me right now if only I gave them the chance to meet me' and so on.
It'll be hard at the beginning to believe these positive thoughts but eventually - if you keep repeating them in your head - you will believe them and that's the secret of your future success.
Positive thinking yields positive results.
Every person you consider to be 'lucky in love' is actually carrying a huge amount of positive thoughts in his/her mind; she/he subsequently acts upon those positive thoughts and that, per se, renders them successful with meeting nd attracting people.
If you change your thinking today, you will see a change in your emotional life.
You will also see a change in yourself (you will be happier, more confident, more interesting, more engaged in your own life - all attributes that will make you more attractive in the eyes of any potential partner).
So, it's a win/win situation! It's a very interesting concept but it is infinitely true: in life we get what we think we deserve.
Consciously or even just subconsciously.
If - deep down - you don't think you deserve (or that you are not good enough for) a great partner who loves you for who you are, then you can almost be sure that you will not meet him/her.
It sounds like a new age cliché but it's in fact quite true: every action, no matter how small, derives from our own thinking; our actions determine the results we obtain.
So, you can see how it's all connected together.
So, if you love yourself little, you will only attract people who love you little.
As you learn to love yourself and appreciate yourself more, you will attract people who will love you more! That's why many say that the first rule of success is to focus on yourself, as explained on N1 Love RULE.