The beginning stages of emotional infidelity can be obvious if you are looking out for them.
When your partner, lover or spouse starts to be emotionally intimate with another person, it is only a step away from sexual infidelity.
A strong sexual bond between two people usually starts with the emotional ties they have developed with each other.
Most people do not form other relationships thinking that they are going to be cheating on their lover.
Emotional bonds start off innocent enough, but they can develop into something more before anyone is aware of it happening.
There are 3 signs of the beginning stages of emotional infidelity that I have found to be common in most broken relationships.
Teasing starts it off.
Innocent flirtation between friends can stir up chemistry between the two and quickly aggress to a sexual flirtation.
Just think about it.
How did you start to bond or get to know your partner of your present relationship? A flirtatious smile, a gesture or teasing that was so innocent.
This can happen with people you spend a lot of time with on a regular basis.
You can easily develop relationships anywhere there is common ground like the office or the gym.
Teasing opens the door to "interest" bonding.
That leads us to the second sign, emotional disengagement.
Attraction in play creates a pathway of discovering likes and dislikes in each other's personality and life.
Sharing is broadened from the flirtatious play to discussing what bothers or excites them in life.
Automatically one will start disengaging from the relationship they have at home.
Someone else has been found to share common interests with or satisfy compassionate needs.
This can happen so quickly and it is easier to just go with the flow than to spend the time and energy to try to work out the kinks in the failing relationship.
The third sign to watch out for is secretive behavior.
Phone calls behind closed doors.
Or does your partner hide text messages and emails from you as soon as you come around the corner.
Do defenses go up when simple questions are being asked? Is there denial that this newly developed friendship has any effect on the original relationship? If you recognize the symptoms of emotional infidelity in the early stages it will be easier to reverse the effects of a broken relationship and establish intimacy with your current lover or spouse once again.
If you let it go and just keep ignoring all of the signs of your disintegrating relationship, then you may find it to be too late.
You may be the one who is wandering and going astray, or you may be the lover or spouse that is being left empty handed.
Do yourself a favor.
When you recognize these 3 signs of emotional infidelity, turn your energies to the relationship that you have already spent time nurturing and give your relationship a new beginning.
When your partner, lover or spouse starts to be emotionally intimate with another person, it is only a step away from sexual infidelity.
A strong sexual bond between two people usually starts with the emotional ties they have developed with each other.
Most people do not form other relationships thinking that they are going to be cheating on their lover.
Emotional bonds start off innocent enough, but they can develop into something more before anyone is aware of it happening.
There are 3 signs of the beginning stages of emotional infidelity that I have found to be common in most broken relationships.
Teasing starts it off.
Innocent flirtation between friends can stir up chemistry between the two and quickly aggress to a sexual flirtation.
Just think about it.
How did you start to bond or get to know your partner of your present relationship? A flirtatious smile, a gesture or teasing that was so innocent.
This can happen with people you spend a lot of time with on a regular basis.
You can easily develop relationships anywhere there is common ground like the office or the gym.
Teasing opens the door to "interest" bonding.
That leads us to the second sign, emotional disengagement.
Attraction in play creates a pathway of discovering likes and dislikes in each other's personality and life.
Sharing is broadened from the flirtatious play to discussing what bothers or excites them in life.
Automatically one will start disengaging from the relationship they have at home.
Someone else has been found to share common interests with or satisfy compassionate needs.
This can happen so quickly and it is easier to just go with the flow than to spend the time and energy to try to work out the kinks in the failing relationship.
The third sign to watch out for is secretive behavior.
Phone calls behind closed doors.
Or does your partner hide text messages and emails from you as soon as you come around the corner.
Do defenses go up when simple questions are being asked? Is there denial that this newly developed friendship has any effect on the original relationship? If you recognize the symptoms of emotional infidelity in the early stages it will be easier to reverse the effects of a broken relationship and establish intimacy with your current lover or spouse once again.
If you let it go and just keep ignoring all of the signs of your disintegrating relationship, then you may find it to be too late.
You may be the one who is wandering and going astray, or you may be the lover or spouse that is being left empty handed.
Do yourself a favor.
When you recognize these 3 signs of emotional infidelity, turn your energies to the relationship that you have already spent time nurturing and give your relationship a new beginning.