A lot of guys tend to get a little stiff when they are around a woman, they try a little too hard to give off a "cool" look, and in the process... they end up looking like they are boring and bland and anything but cool. If you want to be the guy that women flock to, if you want to be the guy that can enter a room and have several women take interest in you, you need to be able to open up and become more of an approachable guy.

Women are a lot more social naturally than guys are. Of course, there are some exceptions to this, but on the whole, I think you will agree with me that women tend to be more social. So, when they meet a guy that knows how to be open and does not have to put on the false front and look too cool, they get an immediate attraction to him.

For the most part, whenever I have been out in a club with guys who struggle to meet and attract women, they almost all try a little too hard to put up that front and carry off that image of either being a tough guy, or just a cool guy. And more often than not, that is one of their biggest obstacles in attracting a woman.

Think about it like this: In a place where a woman has a lot of choice in who she can pay attention to, which one is going to stand out more and seem to be more appealing... the guy that has to put up that front, or the guy that is open and seems to be having a good time?

If you guessed the second guy, you would be right more often than not.

Loosen up whenever you are around women, look like you are comfortable, like it's no big deal at all. Just by making this little shift in how you appear, you will see that women start to pay a lot more attention to you.

Women want to find a guy that is the alpha male, the kind of guy that can be himself and hold himself with confidence and not with any false bravado. She needs to see that you are going to be a fun guy to be around, the kind of guy she can picture herself going out at night with, or taking a long weekend somewhere.