Obviously, getting to talk to your ex without appearing weak or desperate is something that's going to be necessary if you want to get him back...
but how do you pull that off?Well, you get him to call YOU!Doing that can be a littletricky, but it's totally possible if you do it right.
The best way to do this is to make an initial, completely non-threatening form of contact that's designed to interest him enough in what you have to say that he actually calls you.
This way, neither person is in an awkward position.
You'll want this to be a message left for him rather than a direct communication though, or else he'll just want to talk to you about it then and you'll look kind of silly if you say "call me back" and hang up.
What you say to him in the message doesn't have to be any one specific thing, but sometimes simpler can be more effective.
Being overly ambiguous can just irritate him, but sometimes an easy "Hey, could you give me a call sometime?I had something I wanted to talk to you about.
" can bring about great results.
Obviously you'll want to adapt this to whatever is most comfortable for both of you, and what's most likely to make him call you, but that's the basic premise of what usually works.
It's incredibly important though, that you know exactly what you're going to say to him when he DOES call.
This is a very vital part of getting him back, and you don't want to waste his call by saying the wrong thing.
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