There is not a woman on the planet that has not been in this situation.
They have broken up with their boyfriend and will do anything to get him back.
But doing "anything" may actually drive him away.
A smart woman knows how to win back their ex without compromising the relationship.
So what actually drives a man away and ruins the chance or rekindling the fire between you two? There are several things to consider.
First, never accept all the blame or place all the blame on him.
When the two of you broke up, it was regardless of how it felt, a mutual thing.
Accept the responsibility for your actions and yours alone.
Accepting responsibility for his faults will drive him away because you look weak.
Don't start flirting with or dating his friends.
If you want your man to respect you, you need to act respectful.
Dating his friends is a guarantee for trouble down the road if you get back together.
Look at the past and see what went wrong.
Once you see it, deal with it and move on.
Many women will drive their ex boyfriends away simply because they can't get out of the past.
Don't be overzealous.
Women who start appearing everywhere their ex boyfriends are will look like a stalker.
Many women believe that out of sight means out of mind.
On the contrary, if you appear everywhere he is, he will run in fear of being smothered.
There are many other simple, yet effective ways to win back your ex boyfriend without driving him further away.
Many relationships have been saved that were otherwise given up for as hopeless.
You have to commit to the cause.
You need to form a strategy.
You need to use the correct methods to bring him back to your embrace.