Over 40 Relationship Advice And Tips For Women - 5 Rules For Attracting Men

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You don't have to be a super model to have men falling all over you.
Go to any party, and you'll see women who aren't even that attractive winding men around their little finger.
Forget about the looks you were born with.
In the modern world it is all about attitude.
Here are 5 rules for attracting any man.
1.
Take Care of Yourself: Men love women in all shapes and sizes, but the most irresistible women have two things in common: they're healthy and vibrant.
Men like women who take care of themselves because they know that these women will always make the effort to stay attractive for their man.
2.
Flirt: Flirting breaks the ice, creates rapport, and establishes an easy comfort zone where a man will feel comfortable asking a woman for her phone number or on a date.
A woman who flirts shows men that not only is she fun-loving and sociable, but she's also approachable.
Most men are scared stiff of rejection, but they'll quickly warm up when a woman flirts with them.
3.
Love Men In General: A woman who doesn't trust men hurts her own chances of finding the one man who will prove to her how wonderful the male species is again.
So every time you go out, remind yourself of what it is you love about men.
Take pleasure in their crazy differences and those things that make men so different from women.
Your warm feelings will make you act more warmly towards the men you meet, and they'll find that irresistibly attractive.
4.
Listen: The power of true listening is extraordinary.
If you haven't used it yet, you're missing out on a powerful tool in the attractive woman's repertoire.
The next time you meet a guy, forget about planning what you are going to say next.
Keep asking him questions.
Don't just pretend to be interested in what he's saying; make yourself interested! Make it a point to remember something interesting he told you and repeat it back a few minutes or hours later.
5.
Mirror His Behavior: This operates on the same principal that we find attractive that which is familiar to us and is a proven technique for getting a man to eat out of your hand.
If he puts his hand on his chin, do the same a minute later, without looking obvious.
If he picks up a glass to drink, you do the same...
you get the picture.
The key here is subtlety.
The guy should never consciously notice that you are mirroring his behavior, because some degree of mirroring is natural.
Mirroring is most important in the initial encounters when neither of you know each other well.
After you're comfortable with one another, you can stop using the technique.
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