When you have been dumped by the man you were hoping to have a rosy future with, the pain and misery is overwhelming. You want your ex back, but you also want him to feel the pain and misery you feel first. You want him to be so sorry he broke up with you that he will come to you begging forgiveness. It is possible to make your ex regret the breakup and plead for you to take him back, but there are things you need to have the strength and determination to do. It is not as difficult as it may seem to make your ex boyfriend miserable without you, but first you need to make him ache for you.

This might sound a bit crazy to you, but to make your ex boyfriend miserable you will have to dump him. Since he is the one that broke up with you, it might seem like an impossible task but it is not. All you have to do is change the way he thinks you are going to react to his dumping you. He is pretty confident right now in the fact that he believes you still are crazy about him and will do anything to get him back. You need to burst his bubble of confidence big time and show him how wrong he is.

Go get your hair done and maybe a tan. Then go buy a hot new outfit and get dressed hot and desirable. Go out and 'accidentally' run into your ex boyfriend. He will be stunned by how great you look and after some small talk tell him you were just going to have coffee and ask him to join you. When you get settled, look him in the eyes and tell him you want to thank him for the breakup and hope he will have a good life. He will feel like a truck hit him and be lucky to keep from dropping his coffee cup. After this announcement, do not talk anymore. Just get up and walk away. You have just dumped him and made him feel the rejection you have been feeling.

Now that he has been dumped and feels rejected, make him ache for you. He is now on the other end of the situation and he will be trying to contact you. Ignore him and do not take his phone calls or answer the many emails and text messages he will be sending. Find other interests. Reconnect with your family you may have been neglecting. Go out with your friends, have a good time and show your ex that you can have a life without him.

When your ex boyfriend hears of your activity, he will remember the good times he had with you and begin to miss you. This will make him desperate because he will feel that he has blown ant chance of having a life with the woman he loves. The more he feels that he cannot have you, the more he will want you. This will make him miserable and he will not be able to stop thinking of you.