Relationship advice you get is only as good as the person that gives it.
Once upon a time, when I was trying to get my ex back, I came to the conclusion that the systems that really work are not as universal as you would think.
What is good advice for a man is seldom effective for a woman because we think differently.
Different "tactics" work in opposite ways in some cases and, as you would imagine, this causes more harm that it helps.
That is why I decided to start a blog about getting an ex back.
I wanted to apply the perspective of both genders to increase the chances that you will get your ex back, while at the same time, helping those in need avoid making crucial mistakes in their sincere efforts to win back their ex.
In this article, I will address how a woman can get her ex back, and will address the men in the days to come.
Before you can get your ex boyfriend or ex husband to ask you to get back together, you must first understand the psychology of your lost love.
You know, better than most I would guess, exactly how your ex will react to your actions.
The only problem is that you are not in the correct mental state at the moment, what with the heartbreak and desire to get back together clouding your judgement, so your first step is to plan out your strategy very carefully.
You have to learn to think with your head and not your heart.
Your heart is wounded right now and is not working properly.
For every step in your strategy to get your ex back, you should imagine yourself in his shoes, and think of how you would react if someone you had broken up with was acting in the way you were planning.
Once you have an idea of how you would handle that, you should do yourself a favor and do exactly the opposite.
When you predict the reactions of your ex in your mind, and we all do that when we want them back so don't worry, but in your head you see them reacting in ways that you hope they will.
That is not logic based in reality.
I'm sure you are sitting there thinking, "That's all well and good, but how can I get my ex back", and I am about to give you some sage advice on that.
The best thing you can do to convince your ex that getting back together is for the best is to get yourself one of the many e-books on how you can do it.
The strategies are all similar and simple.
If your own heart wasn't broken, you could think of them on your own, but since you are emotionally wounded you really need a manual of sorts.
Get that and it's like you get your common sense back.
If you want to know how to get your ex back, and you don't want to purchase a manual on it, then you may want to question your desire to get your ex back.
If you cannot sacrifice a little money, fifty dollars max, in order to get the love of your life to come back then you may only be wanting what you cannot have.
I know I went off on a little tangent but I want it understood that you cannot think for yourself in trying to get your ex back.
You need that guidance because you are not thinking clearly and objectively.
That, above all, is the most important advice I can give you in telling you how to get your ex back because, usually, women are far more emotional than men.
Once upon a time, when I was trying to get my ex back, I came to the conclusion that the systems that really work are not as universal as you would think.
What is good advice for a man is seldom effective for a woman because we think differently.
Different "tactics" work in opposite ways in some cases and, as you would imagine, this causes more harm that it helps.
That is why I decided to start a blog about getting an ex back.
I wanted to apply the perspective of both genders to increase the chances that you will get your ex back, while at the same time, helping those in need avoid making crucial mistakes in their sincere efforts to win back their ex.
In this article, I will address how a woman can get her ex back, and will address the men in the days to come.
Before you can get your ex boyfriend or ex husband to ask you to get back together, you must first understand the psychology of your lost love.
You know, better than most I would guess, exactly how your ex will react to your actions.
The only problem is that you are not in the correct mental state at the moment, what with the heartbreak and desire to get back together clouding your judgement, so your first step is to plan out your strategy very carefully.
You have to learn to think with your head and not your heart.
Your heart is wounded right now and is not working properly.
For every step in your strategy to get your ex back, you should imagine yourself in his shoes, and think of how you would react if someone you had broken up with was acting in the way you were planning.
Once you have an idea of how you would handle that, you should do yourself a favor and do exactly the opposite.
When you predict the reactions of your ex in your mind, and we all do that when we want them back so don't worry, but in your head you see them reacting in ways that you hope they will.
That is not logic based in reality.
I'm sure you are sitting there thinking, "That's all well and good, but how can I get my ex back", and I am about to give you some sage advice on that.
The best thing you can do to convince your ex that getting back together is for the best is to get yourself one of the many e-books on how you can do it.
The strategies are all similar and simple.
If your own heart wasn't broken, you could think of them on your own, but since you are emotionally wounded you really need a manual of sorts.
Get that and it's like you get your common sense back.
If you want to know how to get your ex back, and you don't want to purchase a manual on it, then you may want to question your desire to get your ex back.
If you cannot sacrifice a little money, fifty dollars max, in order to get the love of your life to come back then you may only be wanting what you cannot have.
I know I went off on a little tangent but I want it understood that you cannot think for yourself in trying to get your ex back.
You need that guidance because you are not thinking clearly and objectively.
That, above all, is the most important advice I can give you in telling you how to get your ex back because, usually, women are far more emotional than men.