If you want to get your wife back, it is a lot easier to do it before a divorce.
Although you can get your wife back after a divorce, it is much more difficult and much easier to just prevent it from happening in the first place.
You can usually see a divorce coming before the words escape her lips.
If you want to prevent it, you will need to pinpoint what has gone wrong and then take steps to remedy the situation.
If she seems distant from you, there is a good chance that she is not happy with the relationship.
This is a good opportunity for you to open up a line of communication and simply ask her what is bothering her.
If she has an issue with the relationship or isn't happy for whatever reason, then she will probably tell you.
If she doesn't, and you suspect she just doesn't feel comfortable telling you, then you can request that she write it to you in a letter instead of telling you face to face.
Once you have discovered the reasons she is unhappy then it is time to fix it.
She might just want you to be around more or less than you are now.
It might be a lot of little things that have added up.
Whatever her concerns are, listen and do not argue with her.
Have a conversation and then take steps together to change it.
When you want to get your wife back it is going to take effort from you and her.
Let her know that you want the marriage to work and see if she is willing to take the steps necessary to make that happen.
Learning what the problem is, is the first and most important step to fixing it and having a happy marriage.