Should You Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend? It May Not Be What You Think
Getting back with your girlfriend all depends on the situation you're in.
Did she leave you? Did you leave her? If you're wondering whether or not you should get back with your ex girlfriend, then look no further.
In order to help you make your decision, I will lay out two separate scenarios for you-the rest is up to you! If she left you: Remember that she didn't wake up one morning and just decide to break up with you.
Obviously, something was not to her liking for her to make this decision.
If she told you why she wanted to break off the relationship, then you certainly have a lot more to go on than if she just abruptly left.
If this is the case, then start working on yourself immediately.
Were you too smothering? Were you the jealous type? Were your friends more important than her? It may be hard at first to look in the mirror, but this is an eventual realization we all have to make sometimes; especially if what we want is taken away from us.
Do you want to get back with her because you are lonely? Was your ego hurt? These are not good reasons for getting back with your girlfriend, and you know it.
It is a fact that women want and need someone strong; they will not respect you if you are whiny, begging and weak.
If you were self-centered, then try to understand how this affected your relationship with her and make changes to put other people above yourself.
If you left her: Was she too clingy? Was she spending your money faster than you could make it? Ask these questions with yourself and figure out if she is worth it then.
If you really loved her, you will have to let her know what you won't put up with anymore.
Did you keep things inside until you just couldn't take it anymore? It is up to you to clearly communicate your needs if you want change.
Should you get back with your ex girlfriend, then? Ask yourself next if you really loved her and if she made you happy.
Did she? Is she someone who made you proud to be next to around your friends and family? If the answer is 'yes,' then take the time to formulate a plan to give her another go at it.
Starting to date others will not be in your best interests.
Did she leave you? Did you leave her? If you're wondering whether or not you should get back with your ex girlfriend, then look no further.
In order to help you make your decision, I will lay out two separate scenarios for you-the rest is up to you! If she left you: Remember that she didn't wake up one morning and just decide to break up with you.
Obviously, something was not to her liking for her to make this decision.
If she told you why she wanted to break off the relationship, then you certainly have a lot more to go on than if she just abruptly left.
If this is the case, then start working on yourself immediately.
Were you too smothering? Were you the jealous type? Were your friends more important than her? It may be hard at first to look in the mirror, but this is an eventual realization we all have to make sometimes; especially if what we want is taken away from us.
Do you want to get back with her because you are lonely? Was your ego hurt? These are not good reasons for getting back with your girlfriend, and you know it.
It is a fact that women want and need someone strong; they will not respect you if you are whiny, begging and weak.
If you were self-centered, then try to understand how this affected your relationship with her and make changes to put other people above yourself.
If you left her: Was she too clingy? Was she spending your money faster than you could make it? Ask these questions with yourself and figure out if she is worth it then.
If you really loved her, you will have to let her know what you won't put up with anymore.
Did you keep things inside until you just couldn't take it anymore? It is up to you to clearly communicate your needs if you want change.
Should you get back with your ex girlfriend, then? Ask yourself next if you really loved her and if she made you happy.
Did she? Is she someone who made you proud to be next to around your friends and family? If the answer is 'yes,' then take the time to formulate a plan to give her another go at it.
Starting to date others will not be in your best interests.