When you are in a great relationship and suddenly your girlfriend decides to walk out on you, you feel shattered, as if your world is suddenly crumbling around you.
You wonder what went wrong to make her feel this way.
Your first reaction is to grovel at her feet and beg her for forgiveness, even if you do not think the fault was yours! You want to call her, beg, plead and cry pitifully in the hope that she feels sorry for you and returns.
Stop! This is the last thing you should think of doing in such a predicament.
You need to take stock of the situation.
Whether you would like to believe it or not, time is of utmost essence here.
Use this void that has enveloped you suddenly, to do some introspection.
Think back and see where you have gone wrong.
It could be something you said or did that has driven her away from you.
You may have touched on a sensitive chord.
On the other hand, the fault may not have been, totally yours.
This may be difficult to prove, even though you finally succeed, in getting her back.
In the meantime, what should you do to win your ex girlfriend back? One of the greatest problems of humanity is the loneliness.
Although you may be have tried to ignore this fact, you probably did not succeed.
However, do not forget that she might have the same problem and you could act wisely to make the reunion possible.
Anyway, you should remember that blame doesn't work! If she starts blaming you, do not defend or answer her attacks.
None of these reactions will give a good result.
Just let her pour out her anger and she will be appeased in time.
This moment is extremely important for eventual reunion as without these few minutes she might never reveal her feelings.
Moreover, if she sees that you don't attack her, she will later be sorry for her behavior and will try to repair the relationship.
When you are alone and facing the bare reality of being alone, after a stormy relationship, you can think as calmly as possible and recall the last few days or weeks, when you noticed a change in her behavior.
Was it your fault? Or was it hers? Think, ponder and understand the real cause, if possible.
This separation could be to your advantage, as you realize that things happened for a cause.
What if you decide you are better off without her? You will never reach this decision if you insist on plaguing her with calls and pleas.
You do not have to sit and mope at home all by yourself.
Go out with your buddy or connect with an old friend, whom you have not seen, ever since you got so involved with your girlfriend.
Indulge in some sporting activity or take in a movie.
You will actually find yourself relaxing, in male company that you have done without, for a while now.
When you give yourselves space, the truth will hit you eventually.
You will know in your heart whether you are missing your girlfriend or not.
It might happen that in the company of your friends you will forget about her and about your loneliness.
There could be even another girl waiting for you.
All this is possible and believing that or not it might happen to you as well.
Being negative is not a good way to get your lover back.
Instead, talk to her, without getting worked up or emotional.
Be convincing in your manner of speaking and let her know that you are sorry for what happened and are willing to give the relationship another shot.
Be prepared to start anew, on a clean slate and accept her, for what she is.
Let her know that you are ready to make amends and willing to have her back on mutual terms.
She should be secure in the knowledge that, together, you can take the relationship to the next level.
You wonder what went wrong to make her feel this way.
Your first reaction is to grovel at her feet and beg her for forgiveness, even if you do not think the fault was yours! You want to call her, beg, plead and cry pitifully in the hope that she feels sorry for you and returns.
Stop! This is the last thing you should think of doing in such a predicament.
You need to take stock of the situation.
Whether you would like to believe it or not, time is of utmost essence here.
Use this void that has enveloped you suddenly, to do some introspection.
Think back and see where you have gone wrong.
It could be something you said or did that has driven her away from you.
You may have touched on a sensitive chord.
On the other hand, the fault may not have been, totally yours.
This may be difficult to prove, even though you finally succeed, in getting her back.
In the meantime, what should you do to win your ex girlfriend back? One of the greatest problems of humanity is the loneliness.
Although you may be have tried to ignore this fact, you probably did not succeed.
However, do not forget that she might have the same problem and you could act wisely to make the reunion possible.
Anyway, you should remember that blame doesn't work! If she starts blaming you, do not defend or answer her attacks.
None of these reactions will give a good result.
Just let her pour out her anger and she will be appeased in time.
This moment is extremely important for eventual reunion as without these few minutes she might never reveal her feelings.
Moreover, if she sees that you don't attack her, she will later be sorry for her behavior and will try to repair the relationship.
When you are alone and facing the bare reality of being alone, after a stormy relationship, you can think as calmly as possible and recall the last few days or weeks, when you noticed a change in her behavior.
Was it your fault? Or was it hers? Think, ponder and understand the real cause, if possible.
This separation could be to your advantage, as you realize that things happened for a cause.
What if you decide you are better off without her? You will never reach this decision if you insist on plaguing her with calls and pleas.
You do not have to sit and mope at home all by yourself.
Go out with your buddy or connect with an old friend, whom you have not seen, ever since you got so involved with your girlfriend.
Indulge in some sporting activity or take in a movie.
You will actually find yourself relaxing, in male company that you have done without, for a while now.
When you give yourselves space, the truth will hit you eventually.
You will know in your heart whether you are missing your girlfriend or not.
It might happen that in the company of your friends you will forget about her and about your loneliness.
There could be even another girl waiting for you.
All this is possible and believing that or not it might happen to you as well.
Being negative is not a good way to get your lover back.
Instead, talk to her, without getting worked up or emotional.
Be convincing in your manner of speaking and let her know that you are sorry for what happened and are willing to give the relationship another shot.
Be prepared to start anew, on a clean slate and accept her, for what she is.
Let her know that you are ready to make amends and willing to have her back on mutual terms.
She should be secure in the knowledge that, together, you can take the relationship to the next level.