Why You Should Never Look At Your Ex Girlfriend"s Facebook Or Leave Voicemails If You Want Her Back!
You hang up the phone after leaving yet another voicemail on your ex girlfriend's phone, while starring at her Facebook account.
This time you went from being angry to reasoning with her, and explaining that you're just worried about her because you haven't heard from her.
Do you want to know what your ex is thinking when you showcase this type of behavior? She is thinking "Doesn't he 'get it'! We are NOT together anymore, I do not BELONG to him! He doesn't OWN me.
" I don't know about you, but this sounds VERY close to stalker behavior, and if you have done anything even remotely close to it then it is time we find you a new plan.
Here Is What You Should Be Doing.
Ever heard of the no contact rule? Sure you have.
But if you haven't it basically means that you should not contact your ex girlfriend for a certain duration of time.
But why is this important? Because we only cherish and value things that are scarce, unavailable, and in limited supply.
Human nature 101 right? Here Is Why This Method Is So Intriguing.
Disappearing out of site out of mind from your ex girlfriend is the most powerful move you can make.
It instantly makes you mysterious and trust me my friend, she WILL wonder about you.
Even if she does not want to think about you, she will.
I bet you have tried to get your thoughts off of your ex girlfriend to relieve the pain of rejection but some how your mind always seems to drift back to thoughts of her.
It's how the mind works, so she will think about you, so it is up to you to 'create' mysterious thoughts in her mind such as "I wonder what he is doing", "Wow, he has not called as usual", "I miss him".
What Your Ex Girlfriend Will Treasure the Most During this time your ex girlfriend will continue to grow more curious as to your whereabouts.
This is a golden opportunity for you to make some drastic changes in certain areas of your life.
This time away from your ex should give you a few insights into things you could have done better.
While you should not drown yourself in your sorrows about what you could or should have done, this is a great learning experience and your job now is to implement those changes into your personality.
If you remember your ex girlfriend giving you hints about her needing space then you need to go to work on becoming a more independent man.
This time you went from being angry to reasoning with her, and explaining that you're just worried about her because you haven't heard from her.
Do you want to know what your ex is thinking when you showcase this type of behavior? She is thinking "Doesn't he 'get it'! We are NOT together anymore, I do not BELONG to him! He doesn't OWN me.
" I don't know about you, but this sounds VERY close to stalker behavior, and if you have done anything even remotely close to it then it is time we find you a new plan.
Here Is What You Should Be Doing.
Ever heard of the no contact rule? Sure you have.
But if you haven't it basically means that you should not contact your ex girlfriend for a certain duration of time.
But why is this important? Because we only cherish and value things that are scarce, unavailable, and in limited supply.
Human nature 101 right? Here Is Why This Method Is So Intriguing.
Disappearing out of site out of mind from your ex girlfriend is the most powerful move you can make.
It instantly makes you mysterious and trust me my friend, she WILL wonder about you.
Even if she does not want to think about you, she will.
I bet you have tried to get your thoughts off of your ex girlfriend to relieve the pain of rejection but some how your mind always seems to drift back to thoughts of her.
It's how the mind works, so she will think about you, so it is up to you to 'create' mysterious thoughts in her mind such as "I wonder what he is doing", "Wow, he has not called as usual", "I miss him".
What Your Ex Girlfriend Will Treasure the Most During this time your ex girlfriend will continue to grow more curious as to your whereabouts.
This is a golden opportunity for you to make some drastic changes in certain areas of your life.
This time away from your ex should give you a few insights into things you could have done better.
While you should not drown yourself in your sorrows about what you could or should have done, this is a great learning experience and your job now is to implement those changes into your personality.
If you remember your ex girlfriend giving you hints about her needing space then you need to go to work on becoming a more independent man.