Philosophers say it's better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all.
Whatever, it's still better to have your loved one and not lose her over a petty quarrel.
Breaking up is hard to do, and winning her back is even harder, especially if she's been hurt.
But finding ways to get your ex back has no limit.
To start off, here are four simple steps you should follow.
Don't say I love you.
If you and your ex broke up because you did something very wrong, don't expect to win her back by saying "I love you," because you said it before and it didn't really mean a thing to her after catching you lip locking with someone at the latest club.
Sometimes we forget that we're supposed to say "I love you" for a reason, and not just because we're obligated to say it to our other half.
Your ex wouldn't want to hear you speak of another cliche because that would just make you sound a like a liar, the same with saying "I'm never gonna do that again" or "Promise I'll change, really.
" It's a bit deafening because women want sweet words but if they're not complemented with actions then they're useless.
So if you ever try to talk to get your ex back, have a concrete and realistic discourse.
Let her do all the talking.
Hah! If you did something really stupid prepare for a machine gun mouth.
After she's cooked for you, helped you with work reports and toured your mom around town when she came for a visit and all the other good things she's did, you really think she'll let this slip without a fight, a real verbal fight? If you want to have a talk with your ex it's gonna be tough, but the only way to handle it is to go through it, without talking back.
Let her do all the talking especially if the break up was all your fault.
Let her feel that you're so guilt all you can do is absorb all the insults and condemnation like a little child.
She'll enjoy overpowering you and she'll appreciate how you're willing to listen to all her ranting just to win her back.
Have make up sex, without consent.
One of the sexiest ways to get your ex back is to make love to her like you never did before.
If you meet up to talk things over and you've already said what you had to say, as if she'd let you, have sex with her, yes right now.
She might try to resist but you have to make this moment look like you'd go crazy without her and that you can't imagine not being able to hold her for one day.
Even when you're still kissing and hugging each other she'll feel that you still want her and will realize what she's gonna miss if she'll you go forever.
Make up sex is one of the reasons why fights could also strengthen relationships.
Be available anytime.
After you've made love to her, don't make her feel used by assuming that everything's okay now and then bailing out on her.
Show her that you weren't there for the sex.
And that after all is said and done; you're there for her now more than ever.
Be ready when she wants to talk again or if she wants to get back for good.
Be available and ask her first to do things with you like when you guys were dating.
This is how you seal the deal and surely you'll be able to get your ex back.
Whatever, it's still better to have your loved one and not lose her over a petty quarrel.
Breaking up is hard to do, and winning her back is even harder, especially if she's been hurt.
But finding ways to get your ex back has no limit.
To start off, here are four simple steps you should follow.
Don't say I love you.
If you and your ex broke up because you did something very wrong, don't expect to win her back by saying "I love you," because you said it before and it didn't really mean a thing to her after catching you lip locking with someone at the latest club.
Sometimes we forget that we're supposed to say "I love you" for a reason, and not just because we're obligated to say it to our other half.
Your ex wouldn't want to hear you speak of another cliche because that would just make you sound a like a liar, the same with saying "I'm never gonna do that again" or "Promise I'll change, really.
" It's a bit deafening because women want sweet words but if they're not complemented with actions then they're useless.
So if you ever try to talk to get your ex back, have a concrete and realistic discourse.
Let her do all the talking.
Hah! If you did something really stupid prepare for a machine gun mouth.
After she's cooked for you, helped you with work reports and toured your mom around town when she came for a visit and all the other good things she's did, you really think she'll let this slip without a fight, a real verbal fight? If you want to have a talk with your ex it's gonna be tough, but the only way to handle it is to go through it, without talking back.
Let her do all the talking especially if the break up was all your fault.
Let her feel that you're so guilt all you can do is absorb all the insults and condemnation like a little child.
She'll enjoy overpowering you and she'll appreciate how you're willing to listen to all her ranting just to win her back.
Have make up sex, without consent.
One of the sexiest ways to get your ex back is to make love to her like you never did before.
If you meet up to talk things over and you've already said what you had to say, as if she'd let you, have sex with her, yes right now.
She might try to resist but you have to make this moment look like you'd go crazy without her and that you can't imagine not being able to hold her for one day.
Even when you're still kissing and hugging each other she'll feel that you still want her and will realize what she's gonna miss if she'll you go forever.
Make up sex is one of the reasons why fights could also strengthen relationships.
Be available anytime.
After you've made love to her, don't make her feel used by assuming that everything's okay now and then bailing out on her.
Show her that you weren't there for the sex.
And that after all is said and done; you're there for her now more than ever.
Be ready when she wants to talk again or if she wants to get back for good.
Be available and ask her first to do things with you like when you guys were dating.
This is how you seal the deal and surely you'll be able to get your ex back.