Having to deal with a breakup is hard enough but you still have to deal with the fact that it was you who got dumped and not the other way around. What a way to bruise your ego.

Of course, you could waste your time dwelling on these thoughts and spend a lifetime trying to prove to yourself and to others that you are more than what they think of you. However, wouldn't it be so much better to just move on?

Knowing that this would not be easy, a lot of people give up without even trying. They leave it to time to take care of their pain but what if it is harder for them to wait? This is an immediate surrender to pain and doing this would not be of any good to you.

There is an effective way to deal with the pains of getting dumped by your former lover and that does not involve waiting and sulking while all the pain gets washed away by new memories.

You can easily fast forward the stages of breakup pains and in no time be able to start with a clean slate. All you need is help from a person who may not have gone through the same thing but has enough people skills.

Someone who has sufficient experience in helping people with these problems would be better as the advice that he gives has been tried and tested.

The tips that he provides on dealing with being dumped are not the ones you would find in relationship books and generic articles online. You would have to spend a few dollars to get this book but once you learn of the ways on dealing with your situation, you will have nothing else to worry about.