What Men Want From a Relationship - His Desire For You
What you need to do is figure out which men will want more and how to give it to him.
If you're in the habit of spotting the cutest guy in the joint and trying to get his attention, you might be missing out on a bunch of great guys who'll probably be more apt to give you what you really want.
That cute guy might have a killer smile and charming lines, but if sex is all he wants, all his good looks aren't going to do you any good.
Pay attention to the guy who has the potential to go all the way.
Then take the time to get to know him.
Some women think that just one great conversation is enough to set them of a direct path to a great romance, but those trivial things you learn about him on one date aren't enough.
Love is an emotion that isn't really based on simple facts.
Just because he has all the qualities you're looking for and he looks good on paper doesn't mean the emotions will be there.
This can only come with time and is usually accompanied by that simple sense of being comfortable together.
When you can spend a quiet afternoon watching a movie or strolling through the park and you both feel great just by being together, you're on the path to something real.
Throw enough admiration and respect into the mix and you'll soon have his emotions rising.
He wants to know that you love him for who he is and you're not going to try to turn him into the unrealistic romantic hero of your dreams.
You might unwittingly put pressure on him simply by dropping a few comments here and there, but be aware of how many negative comments you make.
If they add up to too many, you might push him away.
A romantic relationship should be fun, not a chore.
Keep it alive with humor, that sense of easy comfort and the knowledge that you both respect each other, and the blossoming emotions will emerge.
He'll fall in love with you and be ready for a committed relationship.