I'm sure that the realization that your husband doesn't want to have sex with you anymore is like a hard, tough blow to your ego.
This might be because a woman is raised to believe that men are naturally inclined to enjoy sexual intercourse.
Finding out that the man you love is not interested in doing this thing with you anymore is reflective of the reality that he's either gay or he simply changed his mind - he doesn't love you anymore.
Was My Husband Just Not Enjoying Sex With Me? Was He Gay? Both ideas can make you squirm.
I know, because these same ideas were the same ideas that I had at the time when my husband and I were having problems in bed.
I was thinking that since all men enjoy sex, then the reason why my husband is not enjoying in doing the deed with me is because he's gay.
I tried to sneak around and to see if there was any truth to my theory.
When I gave up on that idea, I began to think that the reason why my husband doesn't want to have sex anymore was because he was not in love with me anymore.
In fact, every time I brought up the issue that he doesn't love me anymore, I would blame it on the fact that he wanted to be with another woman.
Was My Husband Cheating on Me? I dwelled on that thinking, even though my husband continually reassured me that there was no disloyalty to me and that his fidelity was still unbroken.
For quite some time, though, I remained blind to other concepts other than my own.
I was too focused on the fact that my husband doesn't want to have sex with me anymore.
I believe that these brought a ton of trouble into our marriage, and unfortunate change between my husband and I.
After frequent arguments and constant fights, I finally decided to do something about my situation.
I decided to dig deeper into the issue; to probe deeper so that maybe, I would be able to discover what the problem was.
Getting to the Heart of the Problem of Why My Husband Doesn't Want to Have Sex I was really very dedicated on finding out what the problem behind the marital trouble was.
That was when I encountered some books and online materials that helped me deal with my frustration by pointing out some other explanation as to why my husband is acting the way he does.
According to my research, one of the reasons why men do not want to engage in sex anymore is that they have some physical problems "down there" and they do not want their wives to get involved because they are ashamed.
Indeed, we all know that men take great pride in their ability to pleasure a woman.
If some sort of dysfunction is occurring, then they want to keep it a secret.
Secondly, another reason is that they have emotional problems that bother them too much, to the point that they cannot concentrate on anything else.
These problems might also cause them to lose interest in sex.
Lastly, while another woman is not the reason, there is some possibility that the passion between a man and wife has subsided beyond what is ideal.
Can This Marriage Problem Ever Be Fixed Luckily, these things can be turned around.
That's what I did and now, I'm into a very happy and exciting marriage with my husband again.
Now there are no more problems with thoughts that my husband doesn't want to have sex with me anymore - because he does.