Remember last week we talked about love being a process? You need to stop hiding and been seen.
You need to embody a new way of being.
This week I want to give you tips on how to step out of your own way and let love in.
The first step is daring to be different.
Dare to Be and Do things differently to have a different love result.
You have to get out of your house and get out of your comfort zone.
You have to be approachable, be available and be willing to connect with other single people or more intimately with your partner in your in a relationship.
AND when you do, be open to see the love possibilities that are everywhere you go.
I do mean everywhere! (Now, if your in relationship, go back and re-read these points because this info is not just for the Singles in our Love Tribe) Create your own opportunities to connect The simple practice of holding your head up and smiling as you walk through the coffee shop, grocery store, restaurant and even a networking event or social gathering, will create a ripple effect.
Even, if the person you make eye contact with and smile at isn't your type, married or not a viable prospect to date.
The truth is, people are watching you and do see you when you go out.
They are picking up on your nonverbal cues and the energy you are giving off.
93% of communication is nonverbal! Looking up and smiling will draw others to come over and talk with you and perhaps even ask you out.
Now here's a tip for the ladies, if you are attracted and interested in him...
Tell him.
There is nothing wrong or unladylike about giving a man a little support and confirmation that you would love to continue the conversation at another time and write down your number and hand it to him.
Then, sit back and receive their pursuit.
Bonus Tip for everyone: If you meet someone at a networking or business event, don't ask for their business card or talk business, especially if your attracted to them.
Be clear in your communication and express that you are interested and would love to get to know them better, not what they do.
For the men, don't let your fear of rejection stop you from approaching her and asking her out..
..
Keep it real and to the point...
For example you could say "Hi, I couldn't help but notice you with that beautiful smile of yours and was wondering if your Single and would like to get acquainted.
The truth is you have nothing to lose, but your shyness and fear of hearing No.
You will quickly realize that hearing No isn't as scary or devastating as you make it out to be.
Don't miss out on meeting someone who is ready for love because you have your head in a computer, are always on the phone or in some way non-verbally communicating I'm not open, available or approachable.
Coaching Assignment: Be a love connector & Be engaged in the love process now! Commit to 1-3 things you will do for the next month to let love in by Fall.
Growth Opportunity What are you willing to commit to do this month to stop isolating and starting dating so you become empowered to co-create a new love story?
You need to embody a new way of being.
This week I want to give you tips on how to step out of your own way and let love in.
The first step is daring to be different.
Dare to Be and Do things differently to have a different love result.
You have to get out of your house and get out of your comfort zone.
You have to be approachable, be available and be willing to connect with other single people or more intimately with your partner in your in a relationship.
AND when you do, be open to see the love possibilities that are everywhere you go.
I do mean everywhere! (Now, if your in relationship, go back and re-read these points because this info is not just for the Singles in our Love Tribe) Create your own opportunities to connect The simple practice of holding your head up and smiling as you walk through the coffee shop, grocery store, restaurant and even a networking event or social gathering, will create a ripple effect.
Even, if the person you make eye contact with and smile at isn't your type, married or not a viable prospect to date.
The truth is, people are watching you and do see you when you go out.
They are picking up on your nonverbal cues and the energy you are giving off.
93% of communication is nonverbal! Looking up and smiling will draw others to come over and talk with you and perhaps even ask you out.
Now here's a tip for the ladies, if you are attracted and interested in him...
Tell him.
There is nothing wrong or unladylike about giving a man a little support and confirmation that you would love to continue the conversation at another time and write down your number and hand it to him.
Then, sit back and receive their pursuit.
Bonus Tip for everyone: If you meet someone at a networking or business event, don't ask for their business card or talk business, especially if your attracted to them.
Be clear in your communication and express that you are interested and would love to get to know them better, not what they do.
For the men, don't let your fear of rejection stop you from approaching her and asking her out..
..
Keep it real and to the point...
For example you could say "Hi, I couldn't help but notice you with that beautiful smile of yours and was wondering if your Single and would like to get acquainted.
The truth is you have nothing to lose, but your shyness and fear of hearing No.
You will quickly realize that hearing No isn't as scary or devastating as you make it out to be.
Don't miss out on meeting someone who is ready for love because you have your head in a computer, are always on the phone or in some way non-verbally communicating I'm not open, available or approachable.
Coaching Assignment: Be a love connector & Be engaged in the love process now! Commit to 1-3 things you will do for the next month to let love in by Fall.
Growth Opportunity What are you willing to commit to do this month to stop isolating and starting dating so you become empowered to co-create a new love story?