Many times you hear ex lovers asking the question: how do I get her back? It may give you confidence to know that this same question has been asked for centuries by men the world over. Even if you are now thinking as you read this that feeling better about your problems does not help you to get her back. It means that now that you are not feeling too emotional about the whole thing, you can afford to give her time at least to cool off and begin to actually miss your company. That is your rule number one: Get girl back by giving her space.

In this period of absence from one another, you will take time to think things over because that is what she should also be doing if she really valued the relationship you had together. Give her space by not controlling what she does or whom she sees. It will help her and you too, to see things differently as you begin to mix with others. It is also the time to check on what went wrong, understand your own mistakes and see how to correct things. Mostly, it would require you to adjust a few things to do with your personality. Apart from trying to make yourself a better person, try to go by the things she loved or preferred but had not been easy for you. A kind of transformation would be necessary, deportment, cleanliness, and mannerisms. Rule number two: Get girl back by changing my negatives.

Girls love clean, neat guys who are self confident and are able to provide stability socially and economically. Try to improve your lot by enrolling in some self improvement programs. As you continue to get your own life improvement plans on track, hang out with other friends and just have fun. It will help boost your self confidence as you will mix with other girls. As time goes on, begin to send her signals that you are still interested in continuing with the relationship. Begin to approach her in the same way you did before, and check her response. Have fun and show her how you have become a better person. Rule number three: Get her back by being confident in yourself.