Marriages fall apart all the time but there is no need for this to happen.
Many people head straight for divorce at the first signs of discomfort but there are things you can do to help yourself find happiness in your marriage.
Here are some tips that will be useful in any marriage.
Tip #1 Get ready for change.
Change is what you want in your marriage at this point and you have to accept that you will have to change first before things can get better.
Change in attitude is one of the first and probably the most difficult thing to do because you might feel that you've done enough, that you've tried hard enough and it should be your partner's turn to put out the effort.
Well the reality is that if you want something to happen, you have to make it happen.
Put your best foot forward and have another go at it with full force.
Tip #2 Identify the problem and fix it.
There are often issues in marriages that are backlogged and sometimes it takes just one small mistake that the other person made to trigger a large argument that brings up many other issues.
Try to deal with each problem individually, if some overlap, that's fine too but try to stay focused.
There is a problem that needs to be fixed so fix that problem and them move on.
Tip #3 Communicate often.
Arguments where you talk about problems is not communication.
You have to talk about things before it turns into a fight.
As the feelings come up, share them and let your partner know how you feel.
Also be ready to listen when they want to share as well.
Be open and fair.
These tips will help you get to a place where you can start improving but marriage is a complicated system and there are many other considerations.