If you are trying to keep a marriage or relationship intact, then you probably need a relationship rescue. There are books on the subject and much advice from friends and family. There are marriage counselors and therapists who will usually end up saying the same thing which may or may not be good advice to follow.
The best approach in any relationship rescue is to be honest and accepting of the other. You must realize that the blame for the problems in the relationship is shared. Recognize your own flaws and be open to direct criticism from your spouse toward you. Both of you probably need to make some changes. Both need to keep an open mind for the needed changes to take place.
True love is a matter of give and take. Each partner must be willing to give up a portion of their past behavior in order to settle the differences and move forward. The increased compatibility will be well worth the effort.
The largest part of any relationship rescue is to change your perspective.
You may have been dealing with a false reality without realizing it. The worst problem in the world may not seem so bad once the proper perspective is reached. People tend to drown in worry, when in reality, the worry is usually worse than the problem. In relationships, this can be true most of the time. Look at the situation from different viewpoints. Your partner may be working too much and spending too little time with you. However, what if he or she had been unemployed for the last six months and was struggling to find work? Do you see the need to focus from different angles?
Try to talk things through. When problems are settled, drop it and move on. Relationships will run far more smoothly if no one holds grudges. Don't let this happen. Deal with present problems and let them go. Don't fight battles more than once.
These are suggestions for your relationship rescue. Use them to breathe new life into your relationship!
You are reading material found in "The Magic of Making Up." It is a proven and easy to follow formula for solving problems found in today's relationships. The author is T. 'Dub' Jackson, whose many readers from around the world have expressed their heartfelt gratitude for his unique ability to pinpoint a problem and provide a solution that works.
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The best approach in any relationship rescue is to be honest and accepting of the other. You must realize that the blame for the problems in the relationship is shared. Recognize your own flaws and be open to direct criticism from your spouse toward you. Both of you probably need to make some changes. Both need to keep an open mind for the needed changes to take place.
True love is a matter of give and take. Each partner must be willing to give up a portion of their past behavior in order to settle the differences and move forward. The increased compatibility will be well worth the effort.
The largest part of any relationship rescue is to change your perspective.
You may have been dealing with a false reality without realizing it. The worst problem in the world may not seem so bad once the proper perspective is reached. People tend to drown in worry, when in reality, the worry is usually worse than the problem. In relationships, this can be true most of the time. Look at the situation from different viewpoints. Your partner may be working too much and spending too little time with you. However, what if he or she had been unemployed for the last six months and was struggling to find work? Do you see the need to focus from different angles?
Try to talk things through. When problems are settled, drop it and move on. Relationships will run far more smoothly if no one holds grudges. Don't let this happen. Deal with present problems and let them go. Don't fight battles more than once.
These are suggestions for your relationship rescue. Use them to breathe new life into your relationship!
You are reading material found in "The Magic of Making Up." It is a proven and easy to follow formula for solving problems found in today's relationships. The author is T. 'Dub' Jackson, whose many readers from around the world have expressed their heartfelt gratitude for his unique ability to pinpoint a problem and provide a solution that works.
To read 'The Magic of Making Up" in its entirety, just click to:
http://clarkfan1.makingup.hop.Clickbank.net